Strange occurence

strategos_autokrator · 2015-07-15T13:53:53+00:00

How is the sex life?

If sex is great, then, this behavior of her is a result of your good leadership and how she trusts it.

If sex is bad, then the lack of shit test might signal she isn't attracted to you at all, and has emotionally given up on you. Not only she doesn't trust your leadership, she doesn't care for it at all.

if you've truly internalized the red pill when you'return rarely tested?

The shit tests decrease, but never really end. Btw, comfort tests are a kind of shit test. Shit tests are a feature, a way to communicate. When things improved, you will get so used to them you will pass them without noting or caring, and they will seem like they don't happen as often. But they still happen. Shit tests are a way for her to understand your strength.

Sepean · 2015-07-15T14:43:42+00:00

You write this:

We have our issues just like anyone.

My wife never really throws out any shit tests.

Sex life is great. She is always down to experiment. Frequency is where it needs to be.

Whatever issues you have, they are few and far between. You just have the normal issues that any two human beings will have when they have to interact and get stuff done together.

You're a natural alpha and you do not have the issues that beta men have. At all. I have what you have now, but about 6 months ago I would have sworn that my wife was the vilest person I'd ever known. The amount of scorn and contempt she'd show was unbelievable. I'm not sure anyone can relate unless they've seen first hand how cruel women get to their BBs. And I never did anything - I didn't cheat, didn't go fat, I treated her well, did stuff around the house, took care of the kids.

The only strange thing in your marriage is that you're alpha. There's plenty of natural alphas around, and you're one of them. You can probably tighten your alpha game and maybe go from good to great. But your wife is already happy with who you are. MRP isn't going to be the lifechanger for you like it has been for those of us who were betas.

I think you'll be able to relate more with the experienced MRP guys who are working to perfect things than the new guys who are still dealing with serious problems.

And welcome! Lift and lead.

Countpudyoola · 2015-07-15T14:12:45+00:00

is the lack of shit test a result of my behavior or is it just her own personality?

Probably.

angels_fan · 2015-07-15T13:56:15+00:00

I asked the exact same question here.

Part of me has realized that I am naturally much more red pill than blue pill. Although I still had some blue pill that I hadn't recognized, and am changing that.

Redneck001 · 2015-07-15T14:55:08+00:00

If sex is great, and your wife doesn't challenge your leadership, what issues could you have?

You mentioned that you would like more frequent sex. Are you getting turned down when you escalate? Are you waiting for her to initiate more?

From what you've written, just reading a few books on game and seduction will get you where you want to be.

It seems you're a natural that's just slipped a bit.

jons_throwaway · 2015-07-15T15:04:40+00:00

Wife is very similar. Very little if any shit test, but a metric ton of comfort test.

I have problems passing all the comfort tests.

jacktenofhearts · 2015-07-15T17:00:03+00:00

What are her parent's relationship like? What's her relationship with her dad like?

Some women grow up in a household where their dad is "naturally Red Pill" and their mother's say things like, "your father works hard so don't you dare ever give him any shit."

Others grow up in a household where their dad is a supplicating beta bitch who takes an endless stream of shit from his shrill harpy wife. And their mother just badmouths her father in private too, usually as part of making gross generalizations about the incompetence of men. "Your father drives me crazy sometimes. All men are terrible making plans."

Which kind of daughter is more likely to be the kind of woman that gives Shit Tests in her own marriage?

BluepillProfessor · 2015-07-16T02:06:24+00:00

A woman who doesn't throw shit tests.....

(Defined): A female Homo Sapiens fucking a man she perceives to be at least 2 points higher than her SMV.

RPAlternate42 · 2015-07-16T04:13:22+00:00

I'm in the same boat. Rare, if ever shit tests. Mine come more in the version of her being flustered over some life occurrence and me just basically saying, "it's okay... Let me handle this shit." And the. Everything for her is fine.

Now, if you are out of shape in any way and don't dress great, then do those hinge and you will be a god to her.

ZeeyardSA · 2015-07-16T16:23:46+00:00

I too had a lack of shit tests. I now notice comfort tests

Title	Strange occurence
Author	Blackthorn8
Upvotes	4
Comments	20
Date	July 15, 2015 1:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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