We have 2 kids and in response to her continuous requests to have another one I've clearly stated that I do not want more, at least now. Today she presented me two separate tests with 2 stripes.

As I have openly checked paternity for our children in the past, she knows I will check this one as well. And I will, but nevertheless I have reasons to believe this is also mine.

How did it happen? She told me that she did shove my sperm in her vagina - many times after sex when I came on her face or body. I am honestly shocked by complete disregard of my opinion. It sounds cliche as fuck but outside this situation I felt our marriage was content and I enjoyed it 80% of the time.

I just want to listen to what you have to say guys, because I have no close RP friends, my father is old and blue and mother is out of question, TRP will mock me having got into marriage in first place and for askTRP and don't really have a question.

I still try to pose a question though. If this child is mine, how can I continue living with my wife and my family, acting like it was planned and wished for and forgetting (and forgiving) her for this ultimately selfish act of willfulness? And also how can I not - abandoning everything I love, cherish and sacrificed so much for already?