Is there a MRP Noob Action List?

Knoxvillyn · 2015-04-23T21:00:09+00:00

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rediscover03 · 2015-04-23T21:12:55+00:00

Read the books, develop your own plan. And focus more on lifting as opposed to cardio. You want to be the man that the woman thinks can face danger not be really good at running away from danger. Good luck, and welcome.

strategos_autokrator · 2015-04-24T12:13:04+00:00

Essentially, you came here, haven't done ANYTHING, think there are some sort of cliffnotes to fix up your whole life and marriage, and are asking for it.

Lurk more. Take your time. Participate in the weekly Own Your Shit threads. Slow down. There are no shortcuts to fix your life, no quick fixes, pretending there are is lying to yourself.

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cegh · 2015-04-24T09:21:41+00:00

The fact she is going on holiday by herself is huge alarm bells . Why aren't you going? Can't she wait until you both go?

Not to sound the bad bearer of news but most friends who I knew said their wives were going on holiday by themselves. They were going to meet up with another man. That is why any dread you use won't work, not to mention it's long term dread and not a quick fix. She is already monkey branching. I could be wrong but it's what I have found from experience.

If you want to find out the truth, get her not to go and go with you instead. If she is so hell bent on going without you, and won't change the date to go with you even if you refund the price of the trip, you know it's over and no dread will ever fix this unless the other person she sees is more beta than you. Besides why would you want to stay with her anyway if she is monkey branching.

spexer · 2015-04-24T15:45:59+00:00

You are doing MRP wrong. The goal is to attract your wife and for her to support you as the leader of your family. You are instead on the path to divorce.

From reading your replies, you are rejecting your wife's advances, you are jumping to Dread level 10, and many other mistakes.

There is no quick fix. There is however an opportunity to change YOU into a leader who is guiding the marriage to greatness - someone who holds frame and makes his wife want to sleep with him. This is only achieved by you changing YOU.

Not by dread level 10 threats, or by just by lifting. She is not the problem, YOU are. Remember AWALT when considering Divorce.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-04-23T22:11:33+00:00

MRP sidebar. TRP sidebar including Books.

Read my post on Dread for an overview of the process.

Start reading about Shit Tests and responding to them and lifting weights. Read the MAP ("Mindful Attraction Plan") and put together your "MAP" (Man Action Plan). Lift weights, get in shape, learn attraction triggers, be the masculine, dominate, strong man she want to fuck.

No shortcuts.

spexer · 2015-04-24T15:34:08+00:00

What helped me the most - out the gate:

stop talking about stuff - show with actions
no longer talk about or ask for sex. Just make your move and take her.
BE the leader of your marriage an family. just take the role and run with it.
Frame - Frame - Frame. be the Oak.

Title	Is there a MRP Noob Action List?
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Date	April 23, 2015 8:42 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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