So I've swallowed the pill and I'm working on several things like:
- Hitting the gym 4 days a week
- Solid decision-making
- Career improvements
- Some subtle dread
I'm seeing some gains here and there but I don't expect to fix 14 years of BP behavior overnight. But on to the sex, our frequency has gone up a notch or two but I'm still getting the dreaded starfish 95% of the time. Not "duty" sex but it's definitely unenthusiastic.
I'm curious what others do and if anyone has found ways to get past this. Should I turn it down? Always or just from time to time? Maybe I should quit in the middle for maximum effect?
Pro Starfish:
- I know she's getting off at least some of the time and that she enjoys it regardless
- Keep the habit going
- Deposit some male hormones and generate oxytocin
- Beats beating it myself
Turn Her Down:
- Get point across that this isn't good enough
- Lets her get horny
- Get hamster thinking I don't need her
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