Married Push / Pull examples please

RPWolf · 2018-08-29T01:52:44+00:00

I have consciously gone into the bathroom and put a quarter on the floor next to her vanity. I’ll wait till she’s in there with no bottoms on or out of the shower and walk in and and stare at her ass but also the floor and go “ohhhhh shit girl!!” And she will smirk and I’ll walk in the bathroom like I’m going to grab her ass, walk past her and go “I found a quarter!!” Pick it up, flip it, smack ass, walk out and wait for the “you’re such an asshole!!”

iloveairplane · 2018-08-29T16:27:18+00:00

Seriously the best push/pull is when you keep it light/fun and don't even make it sexual. Then she's the dirty little whore if she turns your games sexual right? (and if she does you get to blame her which is a game on its own). Basically leave a little plausible deniability for the pull to exist.

-Bring her in for a hug and then before she gets a chance to pull away say something like "ok that's enough"

-After she does something you like... "you're so cute....(chuckle, pause) you know - like a puppy....what is the name of that kind of puppy, oh corgi! Those dogs are cuuuute (proceed to get on your phone and look up a picture of a corgi puppy)"

-(version of the quarter above - which I will steal tonight) look straight at her and don't break eye contact, then start walking toward her and then past her and swat at the wall like there was a fly, then mumble in barely coherent volume "bastard - I got you"

-come up behind her and pull the back of her shorts/skirt/jeans down a bit like you are about to molest her, then say "you had a tag sticking out".....proceed to go about your business.

-(similar to above) look at her tits, then reach down her shirt and when she goes to smack your hand say "you have some (crumbs/liquid/glitter/eyelash) down your shirt".

-(similar to above) look at her eyes then move in with your hand and start squinting like your concerned and when she freaks out slowly cautiously say "Don't.... move..... an ....inch!" and then make like you're getting an eyelash or something. Follow up with "I saved your life. you're welcome."

-(this one takes preparation - find a wall you can hide behind) look at her with concern, when she sees you looking just point behind her, when she turns around to look slip behind the wall/bush/tree/car/whatever and then when she looks back like she saw nothing and you are an idiot (chicks like to play like we are idiots) then you are gone. I've had that turn into a fun game with the family where all of them couldn't find me and they were spreading out looking.

Hope that helps a bit.

helaughsinhidden · 2018-08-29T13:39:27+00:00

Thought of a couple more on the way to work. This goes two ways too. You can pull them in and push away or push away to pull them in.

Playful teasing. If you help do the dishes, which I do faithfully at least once a year, use the sprayer to hit her in the tits or on the ass as she passes by. In fact, Nerf gun, squirt gun, rubber bands, etc... Insert your own slightly bratty way to tease her, not in a mean or rude way, but like you probably did to girls in middle school.
Startling her or mild heart attacks. Sneak up behind her and smack her ass, kiss or breath on her neck, reach around her sides and grab her boobs when she doesn't know your in the room. Best done if you just happen to bump into her at the grocery store and she is honestly not expecting you there.
Surprise road trip or stop along the way (if alone). Your spontaneity will create anxiety and tension. Tension is the kindling in sexual desire. Keep a blanket, glasses and her favorite drink in the trunk. Stop for 15 minutes to an hour in a private local and she will do whatever you want.
Look at her very serious and say "honey I have to talk to you, something important came up" when she comes close, hold her like you are going to passionately kiss her, look deep in her eyes. Then ask her to go to the kitchen and make a sandwich or get you a drink.
I will take a picture of her on my phone, laugh, say "that's going on facebook". She will jump up from whatever she's doing and try to take the phone, and I will run to the bedroom. Depending on her mood, I will either lock her out and text it to her to further tease or I won't lock it, but lay on the bed and pull her on top of me when she gets on there to take the phone.
Pretend their is something on her outfit or wrong with it where she can't see. While taking a closer look, determine it is her actual pants themselves that are the issue and start slowly taking them off saying "yep, that was it, this is looking better already." If it's a dress, I will pull off her panties and say in a satisfied tone, "there, that will do it". Then put them in my front pocket (if she let me take them) and walk away all smug and accomplished. If she resists, I act offended and say "hey!?, I was just trying to help".

helaughsinhidden · 2018-08-29T01:57:03+00:00

My wife is pretty and knows it and expects ...EXPECTS compliments. She sells make-up and gets facebook likes from friends and customers on her daily Facebook and IG posts. Therefore standard "you look nice" doesn't work. I gotta be subtle and sneaky for affect. I'll "act" mad because she's trying to seduce me.

The way I will do it is start by reading near her and stop with an upset and clearly annoyed tone and say "Don you mind?". She is always caught off guard and surprised and will ask "What are talking about?!" Then I will say something like "I am trying to mind my own business and read, but you're over there trying to look all hot and sexy with all that cleavage so I can't focus." Or "How am I supposed to get anything done with you showing your ass off in those yoga pants..... (intently stare at ass or crotch) oh, WITHOUT UNDERWEAR no less!" Then the shit eating grin and approach. It gets her to blush and giggle because she likes it when I am being clever and notice and remark on something specific. I will come and kiss and escalate the kino on whatever I noticed. From there, sometimes I will say "if you must have me now, I suppose I can't resist" or tease for later and say "This project has to get finished, but I will give you what you want later. Whisper in her ear saying "you little slut ... daddy like". Probably the no word close of grabbing her hand and walking her to the bedroom works the best.

Ymmv

mattizie · 2018-08-29T09:33:48+00:00

Make push/pull part of your autopilot. You become what you practice, this is why they say to fake it till you make it. Pretend to be the Chad you want to be, and eventually it will become you.

As for push pull. It's pretty simple, do something that makes her think sex is about to happen, then reveal that you're doing something else entirely. IE:

she's bent over looking for something in the cupboard, walk behind her, and rub your crotch on her ass like a slow dryfuck, then grab something from the shelf above her, and play it off like nothing happened.

Kino/teasing/slap ass/grope into "Oh shit, I'm going to be late"

Tease/foreplay into "sorry honey, no sex now, gotta keep my T up for my big lift, going for a new PB".

RPWolf's example is particularly good because it's a lot more original than my ones. But either way, if you think about new ways to fuck with your wife in this way, you'll be surprised at how many ideas you can come up with during your day-to-day interactions.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-08-29T01:53:29+00:00

“but autopilot at home means i am not so good there”

That’s why we all say MRP is red pill on hard mode. You have to keep gaming the same chick day in and out.

“Obviously its use is different in a married-at-home scenario to the hot chick in the nightclub scenario.”

No, it’s the same thing. Ask yourself how would you treat your girlfriend, and then do that.

Don’t be on auto pilot at home. That gives no tingles. She’ll get them from somewhere else like fuck book or reality tv. Mix comfort with alpha traits. Be unpredictable. Fuck with her, tease her, challenge her, make her qualify to you.

I’m not giving specifics examples.

Power through with IDGAF attitude. The idea is to let her experience you being dominant.

Game her. Always.

screechhater · 2018-08-31T20:55:39+00:00

What is your wardrobe and body fat percentage ?

Haircut ? Beard or clean ?

Serious as fuck

RedPillCoach · 2018-08-31T18:07:03+00:00

Backhanded complements are one way to accomplish this. Criticize her rudely but make it a joke.

10 y/o son asks at dinner if women have more body fat than men.

I say: "Look at your mother." [PUSH!]

He turns to her and nods. "Oh yah dad, a LOT more." [OUCH!]

Wife opens and shuts her mouth twice working her gills before shutting up. While loading the dishwasher I hugged her for a few seconds [PULL!] and when she tried to pull away angrily I gripped her belly fat and held her tightly [PUSH-PULL MIND CIRCUIT].

The key is the repair following a Rapport Break especially in marriage. In marriage, a Rapport Break (Push) should be enough to make her scowl but not to much to make her cry. Then you repair it by taking charge and pulling her to you, kissing her or whatever (Pull).

Title	Married Push / Pull examples please
Author	simbarlion
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Date	August 29, 2018 12:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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