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You are being cold to me

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August 27, 2018
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I stfu for the first time in a real argument and held fast for a day and a half without going back and apologising. It was hard as fuck but worked in the end. But the title made me wonder, she said it with sadness. I know it’s the right thing to do and that she might be re adjusting to not having me whipped like she has been used to. I’m curious, how do you guys handle this phase?


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Title You are being cold to me
Author Stellarhit
Upvotes 8
Comments 17
Date 27 August 2018 04:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204073
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9aqift/you_are_being_cold_to_me/
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[–]PersaeusRed Beret12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

GZF, STFU, and fuck her good

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is why having frame is the FIRST thing you do! You have to have frame to handle the power dynamic shift.

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The little darlings are certainly the experts at that aren't they?

[–]Stellarhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

thank you, i will read this for sure! knowlege is power

[–]RedPillCoach9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

sadness

Awww, let's try not be cold to each other again. Come here sweetie....

day and a half

If you STFU for that long it is NOT STFU it is stonewalling- check out my MRP Advanced Class on the sidebar and learn the difference. STFU is a short term solution to a short term problem- you being to much of a wimp to stand up to your wife without losing your cool. Hopefully that lasts for an hour or half a day. When it goes on for days at a time you have a problem.

[–]Stellarhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you for replying. I will defo check out the advanced class. you might be right about it being a bigger issue

[–]gettingmymojobackRed Beret7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read BPP’s book/ listen to his podcasts, pay specific attention to resetting every day.

You can withdraw attention today and still play your nice card the next morning. Depending on how she acts, rinse and repeat as necessary.

[–]rocknrollchuck4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Go up to her, give her a big hug, grab her ass and tell her "Well, let's get warmed up then!" Take her to the bedroom and pound her good.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'll translate this for you,

"You are being cold to me" means....

"You didn't come begging and supplicating to me to say your sorry for what I did wrong and that makes me feel threatened by your new strength, so I'll try some other type of emotional manipulation to convince him to stay my beta bitch".

Give zero fucks for her emotional manipulation tactics, STFU so you don't say anything that betrays the fact that you are just faking it until you make it.

Hold frame like Neo and watch the bullets fly past in slow motion and laugh

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bingo

[–]Stellarhit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

it is so hard for a newbie like me to see this in the person you have been closest with for 7 years. Yet, i know you are right

[–]abudun792 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good work! Feels good to be able to STFU and at the same time it feels wrong to cause that reaction. But that will fade. She's confronted with something she doesn't know, it's very different from what she's used to. The exact words don't matter, it is just air escaping.

You'll notice that nothing bad really happens, although she feels so sad about it. Wait for the experience to happen and you'll like it better every time.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"who cares the least wins"

For now, you have to "hold fast", eventually you "won't care"

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I stfu for the first time in a real argument and held fast for a day

It's a manipulation, she's just fucking with you. Ignore it. Your frame is weak she's just testing.



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