I originally posted in askTRP but thought I’d also add it here to get more feedback from more MRP’ers.

TL:DR As of late i learned that my GF is a drama queen. She needs drama in her life to keep it from being stale. She even admitted that she creates drama sometimes to amp up sexual tension.

TRP preaches heavily on maintaining frame and MRP goes even further into STFU when it comes to DEERING or arguments.

My gf one time made a comment how she likes the aggressive make up sex after a fight. Im more of the laid back, chill type and usually ignore her attitude or tantrums when she has them, and said “why not just make it known that you’re in the mood for some rough sex” to which she replied, it’s not as passionate when there isn’t no tension(kind of true)

Recently my father has been staying at my place when he isn’t off shore due to the seperation him & my mom is going through. My GF hates this and gets an attitude anytime he comes. (Oh well its my father and i told her he’s not going anywhere else so she has to live with it)

The other day he calls and says he’s on his way from work. GF makes her usual comments about not wanting him around because he is annoying, bla bla bla (of course i ignored & STFU).

Later in the night they both arrive around the same time. GF tries some power play by telling me to come down out and get my son from the car while she goes to park the car. I told her i was about to get in the shower and wasn’t coming back out just to walk my son upstairs. She gets upset and hangs up.

When she gets upstairs she clearly has an attitude because pops is around. I tell her to cut it out and begin discussing dinner plans. She tries to be a bit flirty by shaking her ass in front of me. As im sitting in the couch helping my son with homework, she asks me if im mad at her. To which i ignore. She then jumps on me and asks if i think she is disrespectful. To which i replied “ yes, she can be at times.” She continues to ask if I think its just to me or to everyone, at this time i recognized it as a shit test, ignored it and went to the bathroom.

Now this is when the whole drama queen creating tension hits me. One minute she has an attitude, next she’s flirting and now she checking to see if im upset, she’s doing this on purpose. My bed time comes and i prep for bed. She makes a comment about wanting some sex but it didn’t sound like she was serious, sounded more like beta bait that girls say to orbiters. I told her i was tired and didnt want sex, and was going to bed.

30 min later, her she comes, closes the door and jumps into the bed, tearing my boxers off and blowing me. I reject her and tell her to leave me alone. She is being persistent but the baby comes by and knocks on the door. She leaves but returns 15 min later saying she was a bad girl and needs a punishment from daddy. Once again eager to blow me. I give in, and started thrusting her mouth and forcing her head down. Ripped her pajamas off and started spanking her. Shortly after she says it again “daddy, i’ve been bad, and need to be punished, fuck me doggy” and of course i got up and pounded away until she was begging for orgasm after orgasm. Now this was a good session, but for the past 2 wks, i have gotten soft no’s everytime i would initiate without the drama.

Last night i was being rough with her just playing around and she asks why i have to be so aggressive and i responded that she likes it that way. She then immediately asks “says who?” And of course i responded with, last night’s actions speak louder than your words.

So now the question arises, what gives? How do i maintain frame, STFU while my GF is a drama queen and will try to upset me on purpose just to have some rough sex.