So I'm slooooowly drawing the 1000' rope tighter, probably 900' to go. Little things are improving at home, hand in hand with some initial IOI's out in the world. Lifting, reading, internalizing, etc, so far so good but still only a few months into my MAP. I'm starting out from a decent place, having been a solid dancing monkey for several years. Mostly working on the philosophical portions of frame and OI now.
One of my goals (duh) is changing the starfish into a minx. A lot (probably 70%) of our sex life is morning sex: she's not tired, hormone levels are up, it's convenient, etc. A shag in the morning isn't a problem per se, but it's all cuddly, sleepy starfish sex, just down to logistics. We're not likely to get up, bust out lingerie and toys and all the rest of it at 6am.
So this morning, the wife is in the sweet spot for ovulation. I knew it would be sometime between yesterday and tomorrow. I initiated last night after a nice dinner out, but got a soft no:tired. Could have pressed through that, but in my experience that's a sure bet for starfish. Sure enough, she comes over to me this morning, playing footsie and rubbing up on me, her form of initiation. I rubbed her pussy a little then told her I want her to stay horny all day then come to bed tonite in a little black teddy that I love. It pushes her tits up just perfectly and has a nice little thong string that pulls right out of the way. I Got up, got my gym clothes on, and got a cup of coffee, which I am drinking as I write this.
So my question is this: will the minor tension I created be more likely to result in the kinky session I hoped for, or did I just violate MMSLP's guideline of not performing when a woman wants it?
Plot twist: she's going out to dinner with 3 of her girlfriends tonite. They are all in various stages of divorce/disgust with their husbands. She will come home either stoked to be married to someone she loves and who isn't a fuckup, or hating men in general. She'll also have a few cocktails in her, which will swing the pendulum of desire/disgust even further in its given direction.
I'll finish the report in the comments tomorrow morning. Happy hunting, gentlemen.