I'm working through the sidebar, having trouble understanding shit tests.

This post has two parts. My understanding of what a shit test is, and my personal experience with shit tests. Correct both if needed.

  1. Types of shit tests

It sounds like a shit test is when a woman tries to manage you, like you are a child. If you let her manage you then over time she resents you for not being the Captian. You need to own your shit and be delegating to her instead of her delegating to you.

Another type of shit test is when the wife is acting like a child and she has a tantrum or some emotional bullshit and you reward that behavior it and end up spoiling her.

So either you are the child or she is the child. Either way you are not the man.

  1. My experience with shit tests

I have learned that I have a very large ego problem. I have always bucked when the wife asks me to do anything, instinctivly not wanting to be treated as a child. While on a basic level this matches red pill philosophy when you actually look at it closer she should not have to tell me to do anything because either its already done or I've delegated it to her.

But reality is not so simple as that last line. There's an endless list of things that need to be done. For me to properly handle shit tests with my ego problem I have to:

Make sure I own all my shit and do everything I want done first.

If she asks me to do something I don't let my ego get in the way. I ask myself "Does it need to be done?" If yes then I do it. I only say no if I am doing something that is a higher priority. I don't say no just because i dont like her telling me what to do. That in itself is childish.

Let me know your thoughts on this and if there are other types of shit tests.