I have made alot of progress with MRP over the last few months, etc, etc. Something interesting happening today. Wife and I usually shower together, have done it for years without leading to sex. I started initiating sex during the shower today and she says "I know what you're trying to do, how about a BJ and then you take me out shopping?" She has her period so no real sex for a few days. She negotiated last week for a BJ if I run an errand for her and I did it and got a BJ. This time I replied with "I don't like bargains" and went off pleasantly off to do my own thing trying to give her a bit of cold shoulder. It seemed like she was offering duty BJ to manipulate me so she can get her way again. She wasn't offering a BJ because she wanted to fuck me but couldn't because her period. Thats how I figured it. I thought I can initiate again tonight or tomorrow with no obligation attached to it. Am I looking at this right or did I fuck up? BTW could showering separately be a way of withdrawing from her and upping the dread? thoughts. thanks