How do you get your wife back to the days when you were fucking all the time and you were her whole world?

The answer is simple.

Develop oneitis for someone else.

This happened to me a few months back. Nothing has happened physically with the other woman but this is what's happened to my marriage:

  • wife initiating sex A LOT
  • me losing all sense of jealousy over her and hence seeming far more alpha
  • me not standing for her shit and she's respecting me more for it
  • her getting jealous and upset that I've started to improve my body, which has caused her to start an exercise plan to lose weight and look better
  • me generally not giving a fuck, which is making me seem like a different person to her (in a good way)

The flip side to this of course, is that despite my marriage being radically improved I'm no longer sure if I want to be in it. But the more I don't stand for her shit, the more clingy she becomes to me.

I've fixed my marriage to the point where I want out.

The human condition, ladies and gents.