ok so i have been reading and doing my homework! trying to work on myself lifting working on fitness.... Trying to STFU when i am being shit tested cause i have not mastered the other styles yet. So yesterday ltr and i are at the kids soccer game it ends and kids lost . Son came up and was upset that some of the kids were cheering that they lost from our other team. Two of our teams in the same tournament. Anyway he was upset that they were cheering his defeat. I told him to ignore them and that we cant allow others to control our feelings .... LTR has a complete melt down says we are leaving soccer club and that this was a bad idea blah blah blah,, All i say is that we are not doing that and that its just kids being kids and i leave it at that... Anyway LTR gives me the silent treatment rest of day.... How should i handled the situation better??? By the way by the end of the day the hamster must have gotten tired cause she seemed fine and was back to normal. Also as a side note my old self would have argued with her and then got in big fight and tried to explain myself and then apologized later that day truly beta pussy... I am still a beta pussy but i am trying to dig my ass out of it and wanting to learn thanks!