Does growing up with a sister diffuse some blue pill dispositions?

SampsonBrass · 2016-09-13T16:18:23+00:00

My sister was a fucking bitch who told me that "Ken was just another accessory for Barbie" so maybe having a sister does give you some insights to women.

Here's my thoughts: enjoy those kids and teach them each to be what they ought to be. Don't count on anyone else to do it for you

Countpudyoola · 2016-09-13T17:21:51+00:00

My older sisters filled me with incorrect approaches in how to date. Basically they'd go out with whatever alpha sparked their fancy, then relay to me the things they got pissed about later and then tried to drill it into my head to "do or not do". I must have heard "hold the car door" and "talk about what you're thinking" ad nauseum.

Now looking back it's a good reminder what they want and what they THINK they want being two different things.

cholomite · 2016-09-13T17:25:34+00:00

I grew up surrounded by women. Many sisters (no brothers), aunts, cousins..etc. and I turned out bluepill as fuck. Constantly being told by everyone that in order to get women, you need to be nice and do what they say really got into my head hard and by the time I hit dating age it was already too late. I was weak because I didn't work out, I avoided conflict and standing up for myself because I was told to be nice. I'm a little older than my sisters so imagine my suprise when they started bringing guys around that were the complete opposite of what they told me to be I guess it all depends though, my dad was never around too much and being surrounded by nagging bitchy sisters who my mother always sided with, I just retreated to my room and played computer and video games all the time. I never got fat but I never developed much confidence and was always insecure.

I eventually figured out that the "nice guy" thing was a lie but I didn't know any other way. I didn't know the steps to take to get out of it until I found this place. But again, who knows, this was just my experience.

[deleted] · 2016-09-13T18:20:42+00:00

No. My experience was that growing up with 2 sisters and no brothers REINFORCED the Blue Pill.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-09-13T18:28:00+00:00

I try not to think about WAS. I have enough on my plate looking at NOW, and planning for WILLBE

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2016-09-13T18:32:52+00:00

It may depend on how close you were to them. I had a sister, not too close, but didn't help my understanding at all. What's the point of this post though? How will this help you/anyone now?

Westernhagen · 2016-09-14T03:25:45+00:00

No because your mom (and these days, very likely your dad) will very likely demand that you appease and "be nice to" your sisters, thus teaching you that your mission in life is to gain and keep Female Approval. This is the recipe for a BP Nice Guy.

Also, your sister will be yet another source of shitty, counterproductive, "be yourself, be nice" advice about women.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-09-14T16:16:02+00:00

I have observed many guys commenting: "Oh, that's my sister!" So yes, I do think observing up close and personal can be helpful in pulling the mask off the monster. It only works if brother and sister are very close in age.

However, more often the sister just reinforces all the memes that frame the Blue pill mangina mind set. Don't hit girls. She hit you first? Doesn't matter! Be a man! Don't raise your voice to your sister. She yelled at you first? Be a man! Put your head between your knees and keep quiet. Sister took your toy? Be a man and give your sister what she wants. etc.

It's perfect Blue Pill conditioning a lot of the time. Take whatever abuse a girl chooses to dish on you. Don't respond or react because you are not important and your feelings are REALLY not important. Your task is to worship at the feet of the divine feminine you worthless BOY! Girls rule...boys drool!

InChargeMan · 2016-09-15T14:12:43+00:00

My son (early elementary school) is good friends with a girl from school. He plays with her just like a boy (including roughhousing sometimes). I make it a point to not intervene just because she is a girl. Instead, I teach him about self-control and to not "pick on" on those who are weaker, not specific to sex.

i.e. if she runs up and tackles him, then it is fair game, suplex that shit. If a wussy boy at school is having a rough time at school, don't go out of your way to fight with him just because you can.

I'm also starting to introduce the concept of frame. Luckily he was born with a DNGAF attitude, which is a pain in my ass, but should serve him well.

RuleZeroDAD · 2016-09-13T17:23:43+00:00

Your question is actually, "As a father, does having a daughter make it easier for me to see when my son is getting the feminized societal shaft?"

Yes.

One example from my life. Son, 7, daughter, 9.

Schools bend over backwards to enrich her, because held over beliefs regarding girls are anti science etc... Son, objectively more intelligent, but boyishly energetic, school recommended medication to placate teacher of gifted / talented classroom he tested into.

You will get pissed off at the femcentric biases in institutions. You will learn to defend your little guy and teach him to be a man unaffected by the white knights and requests to suppress his masculinity.

Play sports to win. Encourage him to date multiple girls and avoid long term high school relationships. Take any curriculum he wants (your daughter too.). Point out to him when he's "friend zoning" himself. Get him lifting around age 15 for the social and health benefits. Put in the work to counter the persistent message that he is fine "just the way he is." The world will happily neuter him if you let it.

Be a masculine example from day one.

SexistFlyingPig · 2016-09-13T19:44:33+00:00

No. Your sister doesn't view you as someone to fuck. Therefore she views you as someone who provides for her. Your mom is the same way. Moms and sisters try to get you to behave how they think they want you to behave.

This will not get you laid. Because what women want to fuck is someone who commands respect and takes control. Your mom cleaned your ass when you pooped yourself. Your older sister might have as well. They will never see you as someone who commands respect.

Title	Does growing up with a sister diffuse some blue pill dispositions?
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Date	September 13, 2016 4:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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