In all the discussions and growing hobbies comes up. This is an area I don't necessarily have an issue with. I have a wide range of interests; from firearms to board games. Heck as part of my growth I have picked up my texts about Logic (I have dual bachelors degrees and one is in Logic).

The trouble is that in the past (BP days) my wife as always been opposed to anything that takes me outside the home' or in her words the family or anything that would cause me to spend money outside the family. The exception to the is going to the gun range as she doesn't see it as a hobby.

So as a result my BP persona had me closing off most of my outside interests. I still do some of my hobbies actively (board games with a club I run and go to the range 1 a month). Sometimes when I can get out more often it's usually to a response "I don't care I have to study" or her mom is over....

how do you deal with her when she starts complaining about these things?

And as I type this an epiphany comes to me. I am there to entertain her, to keep her from being bored.....

Well fuck