Simple Questions - March 04, 2017

liseux · 2017-03-06T01:47:32+00:00

DH is in a stressful place in life. 80-90 hour work week, career change coming, and on top of that is in the process of being diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder that would explain a lot of symptoms, including fatigue and anxiety. Anyway considering all this sometimes his fuse is so short! How do I deal with this as a properly red pilled wife?

jojoishere2 · 2017-03-04T14:21:22+00:00

I've been with my SO for a few months, he's a few years older, and we started having sex a few weeks ago. Problem is I've never had sex before or done anything beyond kissing. PiV really hurts and I don't get much pleasure from it, despite us having done it a few times now; I thought by now it would get better but its still quite painful but I'm not sure if its the fact that my SO is a foot taller than me that makes a difference (talking about body parts sizes!) Also the sex isn't as mindblowingly passionate as I thought it would be, being a new relationship and all :S and I'm not sure if I'm being receptive enough to it. Any thoughts on how to work on these?

FlowerFluff · 2017-03-04T19:35:36+00:00

In the past week (following some shopping that involved a stop to H&M) , I started to really feel old. It used to be one of my favorite stores, but I haven't stepped in one for a year or two. Not sure if it was just the styles they were showing, but it felt so weird to have a sudden realization that I've grown up. Even G mentioned that everything looked pretty young. It seems like I'm in hyper aware mode about it and am feeling a little overwhelmed. I'll be turning 25 in July and still feel youthful but also grown up.

Any advice for dealing with this and remaining positive? G has 12 years on me and has been really fantastic and loving about it, even mentioned that it's like I'm blossoming. I don't want to turn into a woman who is obsessed about the wall and complains about birthdays. Thank you!

QueenofMay · 2017-03-04T18:16:24+00:00

My Partner of 2 years dreamt about attending university for quite sometime now. But he has only the bare minimum of schooling and an apprenticeship wich he did not like. Very much a problem of continuing family tradition. He finished this apprenticeship/vocational training and began another apprenticeship/vocational training while also attending Adult Education Courses in the evening. He lives about 2 hours away from his work and the school. He has no drivers license as it is too much of cost and he does not have the time as well. He wakes up at 5am and hurries to work. Work lets out at 4pm, 2pm on friday´s. Then he has eaxactly two hours to get to the school wich runs until 10pm. He is home by 11pm. Schoolwork and learning for the vocational training is done either during his least favorite subjects or on weekends.

He is running himself ragged and I am at my wits end. He will not be able to keep this schedule up. But he is in denial mode. What should I do? Can I do anything? He refuses to move as he fears he will not find another good Flat.

Title	Simple Questions - March 04, 2017
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Date	March 4, 2017 1:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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