Wife resents husband for cuckold fetish in /r/sex

gamballer · 2014-09-14T22:01:38+00:00

Cuckolding is based on rationalized insecurity. Basically the male feels so inadequate and has such low self esteem that he literally can't imagine his wife being satisfied (or anyone for that matter) with himself. It's a control thing. He dreads the emotional harm of being cheated on so he channels eroticism into getting off on another man ejaculating into his wife. He believes by arranging the situation he has control of it. Therefore he mitigates the pain of losing control of his relationship. The ultimate blue pill degeneracy. The ultimate negotiating behavior we at TRP all despise. By allowing his wife to indulge in her behavior he convinces himself she will be satisfied staying with him. Pathetic. I had a really fucked friend who was into this with his wife and they were trying to convince me to be the bull for his wife (the alpha in their community that the wife fucks) because she had the hots for me. These men really are fucked in the head.

2014-09-15T00:01:21+00:00

My boyfriend had some PE issues that I tried so long to be supportive and helpful with. Once I had sex with someone with the complete opposite issue... I couldn't go back.

Take note, gentlemen. AWALT

TestosteroneFilled · 2014-09-14T20:55:02+00:00

What the fuck happened to us? How does one man get so fucking pathetic and emasculated to the point that he gets off on someone else fucking his wife in front of him?

Actually, fuck that. I refuse to call that human a man. What man would accept this? How did people get so degenerate that cuckolding is a fetish and it's fucking ACTED ON?

Imagine the lack of respect a woman has to cuckold his bf/husband/whatever. OFCOURSE you're gonna become unattracted to him you stupid slut.

You said it better than I could. The cuckholding thing made he seem weak (which I didn't really realize or articulate until it was too late). He is very attractive to me! But his lack of dominance and for lack of a better word "manliness" became really hard for me to get over. I just wanted to be all his... I didn't want to be shared after I tried it and found that it wasn't for me. He just loved the lifestyle and the thrill so much that I felt at the time I couldn't communicate my feelings towards him. I didn't want him to feel self conscious about what he liked and if it's truly what he wants than it's better for me to leave and for him to find that.

We often say don't listen to what women say. But here's the hamster spitting out the truth. Broken clock right 2 times etc.

Man up you spineless beta. Holy shit this guy needs to swallow not only the redpill but also lots and lots of other pills/medicine to throw the estrogen out of his fucking brain. What a disgrace to masculinity, testosterone, and men.

Unfortunately, probably. Cuckolding also is sometimes coupled with psychological sabotage of the cuckold's own performance. Things like having less skill/ size, confidence, PE issues, which can be avoidable if he weren't getting screwed over by his fetish.. The guys the woman fucks are the opposite. Skilled, confident, last forever, have a good size. Couple this with things like NRE and the fact that the cuckold may be getting humiliated verbally= repulsion from the wife. It's very complex and it can become hard to keep respect for your partner especially with a lack of communication.

No one gives a fuck about your dick size, unless it's under 3 or over 9. Get over it you pussy.

Go to the gym. Work out and lift weights, run frequently to improve your stamina and overall cardiovascular health and your body.

confidence

FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. ACT IT TILL YOU BECOME IT.

Confidence is just like a muscle. If you train it, it will become bigger.

Tl;dr Be dominant, man up and fuck her hard.

LastRevision · 2014-09-14T21:08:52+00:00

"You're infatuated with the new guy, not in love. Love is old, slow to develop, and strong. Infatuation comes and goes quickly."

The blue pill comes in an IV drip now? This motherfucker had a vein tapped. Fuck.

wheyapartment · 2014-09-14T22:58:29+00:00

See? Women will stay exclusive to one man as long as he's not a beta loser.

She wanted to be his exclusively. She wanted to belong to him. It takes a lot more than "breaking frame" once or twice to lose a woman.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-09-15T01:01:56+00:00

How could she not resent him at the most basic level? A man is supposed to protect his woman. My teenage son just poked his momma and stuck his finger in her face during an argument and I was ready to knock him out. If another man touched my wife I could not imagine the rage. Who are these so called "men" who do this cuckold thing?

Rougepellet · 2014-09-15T01:24:23+00:00

How can a man be so spineless. Fuck, no shred of dignity. Pride. Honor. Has it gotten this bad?

2014-09-14T21:00:36+00:00

Goddamn that is fucking disgusting. "Your commitment isn't worth shit to me, just fuck someone else pweasee for my fetish." That woman deserves better Jesus Christ. Just googled a bit and there's whole 'cuckold' communities. Gross

2014-09-14T22:41:23+00:00

The cuckholding thing made he seem weak (which I didn't really realize or articulate until it was too late). He is very attractive to me! But his lack of dominance and for lack of a better word "manliness" became really hard for me to get over. I just wanted to be all his... I didn't want to be shared[...]

She realized he's a provider and not an Alpha. It's nice to see it summed up so clearly by OP herself.

watersign · 2014-09-15T01:04:54+00:00

Guys, cuckolding isn't some Feminism conspiracy. It's been around for along time, probably older than feminism itself.

TaylorWolf · 2014-09-14T23:54:16+00:00

I love cuckolds...

Because I get to fuck their wives without worrying about ANYTHING.

iluminatiNYC · 2014-09-15T03:16:31+00:00

For someone who has hung around the swing scene off an on during the years, there tends to be two broad themes that take place in these cuckold situations.

The first is the closet case scenario. These are dudes that prefer the company of gentlemen, but don't want to go for it because it doesn't fit their image of a socially dominant male. Homophobia is real, y'all. :) As a result, they concoct all of these scenarios to "force" them into what they really want. It's dumb, but there are still chunks of society where being gay means walking away from everything you've worked for and valued in life. It's not my thing, but I have a certain level of respect for them. They know what they want, but they know their ass is going to get kicked for it.

The other type are, to me, nothing but validation junkies who need help. They don't do the gay thing, and will regularly hump these women that they are trying to get to cuckold them. However, instead of the traditional swinger thing, where everyone gets to do their own thing within certain agreed-upon boundaries, they act like jock sniffers. They want other dudes to validate that yes, they have a hot wife, and yes, they are the man for getting to take her home tonight. If you need another dude to validate your SMV, you've already lost. A smart man knows that this is a sign of a lack of confidence, and if you feel ballsy enough, you can take that women with no problem.

2014-09-15T00:14:02+00:00

Some of those comments show so much Red Pill philosophy, it's like it was meant to be posted in TRP. (Except if it were posted here it would be misogynistic lies and women-hating, of course). Here is some of what I'm referring to from the linked thread:

[I also went through this], only with a very serious boyfriend who I was previously madly in love with.

the sex was just that much better?

Yes. I hate to say that, it just makes me feel like an awful person, but the sex was that much better. My boyfriend had some PE issues that I tried so long to be supportive and helpful with. Once I had sex with someone with the complete opposite issue... I couldn't go back. It made me fall out of love. I wasn't as attracted to my boyfriend and slowly I started to pull away when he would kiss me and it just all went down hill. I miss him constantly but I am no longer as attracted to him.

The fact that he was sexually unsatisfying to you made you fall out of love with him?

We still talk often and I sometimes think that maybe someday we could be together, but everything weighs heavily on my mind. I love everything about him personality wise yet, I am not as physically attracted to him as to others -which cuckholding showed me. I don't know If I could ignore those feelings enough to be with him again. He's perfect, lovely, and would love me endlessly to the day I die.

So it's a sort of alpha-male sexual-prowess thing? I guess that would make sense. Maybe his cuckold fantasy made him seem a bit weak to you, and I know from my long and varied history with women that it is strength, in all its different manifestations, is incredibly important. Would you consider your ex an otherwise physically attractive guy?

You said it better than I could. The cuckholding thing made he seem weak (which I didn't really realize or articulate until it was too late). He is very attractive to me! But his lack of dominance and for lack of a better word "manliness" became really hard for me to get over. I just wanted to be all his...I didn't want to be shared after I tried it and found that it wasn't for me. He just loved the lifestyle and the thrill so much that I felt at the time I couldn't communicate my feelings towards him. I didn't want him to feel self conscious about what he liked and if it's truly what he wants than it's better for me to leave and for him to find that.

The beta cuckold boyfriend was the "perfect gentleman", but Blue Pill as anything. Invites alpha lover in who fucks his girlfriend silly and she leaves him for the alpha, totally confused as to why she did, but knowing subconsciously that her boyfriend was a loser.

2014-09-15T03:10:21+00:00

It totally is. We still talk often and I sometimes think that maybe someday we could be together, but everything weighs heavily on my mind. I love everything about him personality wise yet, I am not as physically attracted to him as to others -which cuckholding showed me. I don't know If I could ignore those feelings enough to be with him again. He's perfect, lovely, and would love me endlessly to the day I die. How important is a really fulfilling sex life in a relationship? I fucking ask myself everyday.

Woman trying to justify beta bux through hamsterization. "O sex isn't important in a relationship, we still love each other, even though I get railed by alpha cocks and not his beta cock. I love him!"

nataliieportman · 2014-09-15T12:16:07+00:00

Just reading the word cuckold makes me sick. Yuck.

MGTOW_player · 2014-09-14T21:35:50+00:00

The way I look at "cuckolding" is in two ways:

Traditional cuckolding: Husband has a fetish for getting off on being humiliated or dominated, much like dominatrix fetishes. Or husband has no self-respect, thus can't reject her actions.

"Cuckolding" from a place of power: Husband has high SMV and self-respect. He gets off watching his wife being used like a toy and enjoys "dirty girls" sexually more than plain-vanilla types. Wife also enjoys the sexual variety of hot young guys she gets to fuck. Also gives husband another excuse/ammo for allowing more girls to fuck in his life. In essence, using the woman as a bargaining chip to get hotter/younger girls while keeping her happy.

In case you're wondering, I'm currently living with a couple with a rather large (high real-estate value) compound for this area of the US. In exchange for free room & board, including maid service like a hotel, I fuck his smoking hot wife who is about 30 years younger than him whenever we both want to. He sometimes films it and sometimes joins in to tag team her.

The dude is a natural alpha and has money out the ass. Has fucked many hundreds of beautiful women at swinging events and in general around the world. His wife doesn't mind.

I never have asked him exactly what turns him on about the situation as it's so good it doesn't matter. For all it's worth, he is a smart business man whom I respect and look up to. And he enjoys seeing a young guy impale and jizz in his wife.

2014-09-14T21:47:33+00:00

Cuckolding goes deep. While I've never done it I have been in situations where it was clear that some guy wanted me to fuck his girlfriend or both of them wanted it. The most logical explanation I can think of for this is that the woman is so dominant in the deepest relationship frame that this is a desperate attempt of the man to regain dominance by being indifferent or rejecting of the most meaningful part of the relationship, sexual exclusivity. I've been mystified in recent years of how this seem to not be some outlier fetish but a common trait in people.

Thorsvald · 2014-09-14T23:22:13+00:00

Another confirmation of the obvious

watersign · 2014-09-14T22:42:09+00:00

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KettleMeetPot · 2014-09-15T03:39:02+00:00

There's a lot of bullshit in here. As someone who has been a swinger and participated in threesomes, both mmf, and ffm I can say there's a lot of misinformation in here. First, when I've shared women I've dated with friends/other guys it wasn't about insecurity or being weak. As a matter of fact, it's the complete opposite. Then again, I don't have a micro prick and I'm not a beta.

Title	Wife resents husband for cuckold fetish in /r/sex
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Date	September 14, 2014 8:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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