Book suggestions for good parenting?

red-sfpplus · 2019-02-05T14:05:33+00:00

Let me make it clear.

No book will help a father if he has not already taken the time to unfuck himself first.

Once YOU are good then parenting is easy as you simply LEAD BY EXAMPLE

You act in the manner in which you want your kids to act.

Its that simple.

Everything here, from how to treat woman, how to be a man, limiting screen time, social media, hobbies, friends, interesting life - it is all applicable to the little fuck trophy(s) you will raise.

Dont overcomplicate it. Raising kids it literally the biggest “fake it till you make it” thing in existence.

Not a single fuck knows what to specifically do when it comes out of the female body.

But we figure it out.

ManguZa · 2019-02-05T09:46:24+00:00

Two rules from J Peterson :
- Don't let your child do anything that make you loving him less.
- Don't do anything for him that he can do for himself.
It's a story but i'ld advise Way of the Warrior Kid by Jocko Willink.

Other than that it's important to know that under two yo the mother is the main parent and you just help to take care of the baby. After two yo however you must step up, develop your own relationship with the child, and progressively educate him to rules, discipline and such. If you don't do this correctly before six, chances are that he'll not developed psychologically himself as well as he should.

FlyingSexistPig · 2019-02-05T16:41:26+00:00

Love and Logic by Foster Cline and Charlie Fay.

CaptainFitzgerald · 2019-02-05T09:37:48+00:00

Stefan Molyneux talks a great deal about peaceful parenting and has a lot of red pill perspectives on his philosophy podcast. Should give him a listen.

RStonePT · 2019-02-05T18:39:46+00:00

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Don_Draper27 · 2019-02-05T21:16:54+00:00

Check out "dad university" on youtube.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-02-05T21:17:10+00:00

Also check out "The Family Alpha" website

Steve_rebooting · 2019-02-05T21:52:40+00:00

If your children are very young i would recommend; whole brain child

Mostly about developmental stages and how to help them with the surges of emotions they dont understand. It might assist you in being the person to help them identify their emotions and understand how to deal with them INSTEAD of just telling them to "shut up and stop crying"

If they are older, then mostly lead by example. Take them with the gym with you... show them how to be strong

weakandsensitive · 2019-02-06T07:08:32+00:00

Teach your baby how to use sign language as soon as you can. Why sign language? Have you ever lost your voice and been unable to communicate effectively? It sucks.

Respect that your toddler's problems are big in their world, even if they're not big in yours.

Just because you're older, doesn't mean you know necessarily know better.

Pretty much all you have to do is to show up. Showing up doesn't mean finger fucking with your phone 80% of the time.

Punishermp6 · 2019-02-06T15:42:51+00:00

I don't have any book suggestions but basic advice is to listen to your instincts and don't over think everything. I've seen a lot of parents do dumb shit because they "read it in a book". Whether you have girls or boys, be the male example for them to follow and look up to.

Not sure your current kid situation, but one word of caution. When you have your first kid, its easy to start to follow your Wife's lead more because most guys are clueless with infants. The power dynamic of the relationship can shift as she takes lead in caring for the baby, especially if she's a good Mom. Continue to be the Captain and be proactive when it comes to caring for the baby.

jacksarmy · 2019-02-10T00:39:47+00:00

The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do about It

Title	Book suggestions for good parenting?
Author	TrenGod37
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Date	February 5, 2019 5:30 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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