Taken from a blog:

Not in a million years would I get into a relationship with a woman who hasn't hit the wall and isn't desperate for a man. I can't do it. I believe that women generally place far less value on loyalty in a relationship than do men, and I value loyalty.

It would be irresponsible to expose myself to that kind of risk. In a society which snubs slut shaming, a woman with options feels no obligation to stick around. Why would she? Life's a lot more exciting when you can hop from one bed to the next, and while there's nothing inherently "wrong" with that it does make a man seeking commitment look like a chump. Essentially, the social norms that govern sexual relationships that once backed monogamy now back polygamy, and it would be smiles all around but for the fact that most women are interested in sleeping with a handful of genetically good looking men throughout their 20s, men who are all too happy to oblige them. Lucky men, though I sense they place less value on casual sexual encounters with women than do the men who aren't getting any, but I digress.

So what's the answer? Generally split into two camps, you have those guys who try to up their game and style and chase a modicum of success despite knowing that they'll never be as successful as their Adonis shaped competition, and then you have those guys who "go their own way" which usually means spiraling into a pit of pitiful bitterness, arguing with feminists and just all round complaining about the way things are.

But I see issues with both. I think that the best thing a guy can do for himself is forget about women and sex. If it comes, fucking great. And if not, too bad. Either way, for a man to peg his sense of well being to the amount of sex that he's getting, or indeed to a woman's commitment, is the mark of a weak man, Adonis-looking or not. The fact is sex has become commodified and everyone obsesses over things from "virginity" to number of previous partners, to exploring fetishes and slapping high fives for getting into threesomes. Men compare their dick sizes and are all too happy to let women weigh in on their psyches. In short, men have become insecure little wimps who base their entire existence around getting laid, even those men outside of the manosphere you would consider "well adjusted". I see few well adjusted men in the world.

Till you, as a man, learn to walk a lonely path and need entertainment from nobody but your very self, you will never find peace.