Its been said on here many times that resisting the urge to respond to everything another person says can be a powerful tool in your arsenal.
This FR is dedicated to this concept. Lately I've been utilizing this technique in my day to day. In the past I've often felt like I needed the last word, a witty joke or statement at the end to keep the conversation going or to be remembered.
Now unless a response comes to me immediately almost automatically I know I should say it (with some obvious exceptions. Be a normal human. Don't be stupid and put your foot in your mouth.) But rather unless you KNOW what to say, say nothing and just look at the person. It takes practice and you have to have a sly amused sort of grin. You need to convey that you heard them but you're choosing not to respond. You can't have it come off that you are at loss for words.
Tonight I met up with a chick from Tinder. We had a good time casual date type shit. We go back to her place and start to get into it. When I go for the pussy she touches my hand as says, "You know that thing that girls get once a month? Well mines just starting so we can't have sex."
I immediately wanted to say things like, "I don't care" "Thats OK" "Don't worry about it" etc. and I almost convinced myself it wasn't going to happen all in a split second. However, I decided to say nothing. I just stared at her with a slight grin mixed with I'm going to fuck you eyes and she stared back and said nothing. It was probably 10-15 seconds but it felt like an eternity. I could see and feel her caving right in front of me and she wasn't talking. It was very cool.
I kissed her and grabbed her pussy, told her it was my pussy now. She said, "You don't care?" I said nothing and continued and we had great sex. I'm pretty sure she was lying from the beginning there was no mess at all everything was fine.
I feel that if I had responded with anything, doesn't matter what, I would not have gotten laid. It would have started a discussion killing the mood and putting me in a frame of basically begging to fuck her. It was a shit test / Plausible Deniability to the max and when I didn't say anything she felt my masculinity. I felt extremely powerful in the silence and she was helpless to it,
Silence is Golden.
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