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Let's put down insecure guys. But why can't guys see me for my "amazing personality", those pigs!!

enoji12

February 9, 2014
29 upvotes
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Title Let's put down insecure guys. But why can't guys see me for my "amazing personality", those pigs!!
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enoji12

Upvotes 29
Comments 40
Date February 9, 2014 9:19 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1xgmzn/lets_put_down_insecure_guys_but_why_cant_guys_see/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/lets-put-down-insecure-guys-but-why-cant-guys-see.231286
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Comments

[–]Dick_Rockhard 26 points27 points28 points 12 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

This broad is hilarious. I'm sure tons of non-fedora'd dudes are just banging down doors to get with her.

When I think of a stereotypical angry feminist it's this author that I picture. I wouldn't give her a second look under any circumstances. I can see why she says she's heard enough about people telling her not to wear shit that makes her look fat. Fucking everything makes her look fat.

[–]enoji12[S] 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But of course, the men who die in wars and in industrial accidents aren't victims or people, just the "patriarchy backfiring"

[–]carefoot 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women are emotional they don't see through the bullshit like Patrice who knew banksters as ritual murders and, knew that selling bombs + bandages is meaningless when you can nust print money. War is now more about mind control, and mass human sacrafice. What do women know?

[–]fuckeh 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mr. Rockhard, you made me actually laugh out loud. I'm going to have nightmares tonight after seeing that picture though.

Am I the only one that sees the similarity?

[–]notseriouslyserious 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Christ, nsfw that shit bro.

[–]PrinceBarrington5 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Good god. Look at that. Lights on tonight for sure!

[–]TRP VanguardYouDislikeMyOpinion 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's like a 2, you also got me real good with the last 2 lines.

Gotta love "bikini-bridge" and "dat-gap". Does anyone know any more like these?

[–]gg_s 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That may or may not be her, but this is definitely her, as taken from her post, On Being Fat and Wearing Crop Tops.

[–]Dick_Rockhard 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That I could be completely wrong about the author's picture (I searched on my phone) and still have my comment be 100% applicable is somehow not the least bit surprising.

[–]OKJaded 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lift the arms to hide your muffin-top.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol. From the way she talked, I expected a true hamplanet.

Bitch, stop whining. Cut out the cookie dough milkshakes for a year and you'll be fine. Don't go through life a bitter harpy just because you have no self control. Take a year to get your shit together, and then enjoy the rest of your youth.

[–]5 Endorsed ContributorStayinghereforreal 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

What shitty writing. I could not be bothered to finish trying to understand what she thought she was saying. Not worth it.

[–]PrinceBarrington2 points 12 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Same here man. I made a joke on Facebook about fedoras and all the nerds jumped down my throat telling me not to 'be that guy' who hates on fedoras. It was a joke I thought they'd get, you know with the whole fedora nice guy neck beards on many a forum they all frequent. I stated one should define their own style and ignore fashions. I was told a choice to forgo the fedora is a fashion statement. I'm utterly confused with the fedora thing and quite frankly, am growing real tired of the whole internet thing full stop. It's tempting to cancel my internet subscription and go off the grid: live life in meatspace until i die!

[–]carefoot 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Godluck albeit due to my neck beard I get more pussy via net dating but when I do meatspace hunting I usually bag someone out of my league with daddy issues its a win win.

[–]PrinceBarrington 1 points1 points1 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

My old housemate had a neckbeard. My cat loved to whore herself out and sit on his chubby chest while he reclined playing Eve, she'd snuggle right up to his beard. Pussy love neckbeard!

[–]carefoot 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I still am attractive, funny, and rich though so I do it out of being lazy for sure.

[–]gstvtrp 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I really think this is just women trying to rationalize why they hate unattractive men.

[–]carefoot 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They're dishonest so what do you expect the truth? Not going to happn.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Basically, “nice guys” suck.

you see, even feminists hate betas

[–]enoji12[S] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But most feminists are ... themselves...

If I said that though, they would accuse me of not seeing them for their "amazing" personality.

[–]carefoot 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some are insane alpha attempting females who substitute confidence with being a batshit witch.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The take-away from this article ought to smack a few nice-guys in the face. You guys should quit ragging on the author and learn what you can from her.

Dear Nice Guys who think there's some kind of honor in sticking to your moral code, doing nice things for women and "treating them like human beings while just being yourself" hoping one day she'll actually notice you:

  1. This article is not a one-off. It is common to all women. Women hate you specifically because you are a "nice guy."

  2. Women are right to hate you. Being nice makes you a timid pussy who's too much of a scared little bitch to tell a girl what he actually wants, and a manipulative creepy weirdo trying to con a woman into liking him -- both at the same time. Quite an accomplishment. I'd fuck an asshole over you, too.

  3. Quit whining about women being like this and what's wrong with them and fucking change yourself.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mooo!

[–]neobrown 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There is some truth in this article

“The Friend Zone is a bullshit, misogynistic, make-believe land Nice Guys have come up with to demonize women for not wanting to date them. They use it as an excuse to ignore the fact that there are Actual Reasons behind their decision to not pursue a relationship or have sex with this guy. You know, like not being physically attracted to them. Or not being able to connect with them. Or seeing through their crap and realizing that the only reason these guys are even friends with them in the first place is so they can get laid.”

[–]icyhot39 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Or seeing through their crap and realizing that the only reason these guys are even friends with them in the first place is so they can get laid.”

You gotta love the contradictions, solipsism, and man-shaming in that statement. Women simultaneously tell us to be beta & get to know them before trying to sex them....and then hate us when we listen and do just that.

[–]carefoot 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because that is a sad state of affairs. Most I do is give a massage, and be a rock. Women who say that shit I tell them they're broken, and that whatever loser man taught them the behavior is unnaturally part of the pussification of the modern male.

[–]RPtooLate 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The fedora is a big red flag that says, "I am unable to excel at the conventional paramaters of societal fashion and probably social anything." It pretty much means a guy has given up trying to be the things that a woman wants and that he will be totally-bluepill-clueless in any area that matters to her. That's why women hate it, because it's blue-pill "be yourself" personified.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you know the cargo pants-fedora-tenchcoat-sunglasses-neckbeard-cheetos-and energy drink getup sounds quite cozy, in a way.

I think that will be my costume in an upcoming holiday , maybe .

[–]throwaway75369 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

On the subject of fedoras...

I still have a thatch fedora I wear to the beach and long walks. To be honest with you, it sucks how a piece of apparel is getting more and more associated with the loser flock nowadays.

[–]Platapushkin 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The hat has nothing to do with it though.

Gangster used to wear them back in the prohibition times, but they weren't gangster because they wore fedoras and other hats. Same applies here.

[–]throwaway75369 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"The man makes the suit" are wise words indeed.

[–]drallcom31 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

The fedoras on betas are actually trilbys.

[–]TfahsNoriEht -3 points-2 points-1 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No one gives a shit

[–]smokeybehr 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your local haberdasher would disagree and give you a good thrashing.

[–]mydoucheaccount 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nice guys = Blue pill. That article just confirms redpill theory.

[–]carefoot 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't even read the article I just came to troll all the weak in the comments Patrice O'Neal shines down on us all gleaming with a big smile, and go forth - get the booty!

[–]randomdude600 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Best part is she spends the whole article shaming men who wear fedoras and then in the last paragraph says how everyone should be free to "adorn themselves" however they want without fear of shaming.

So shaming is bad unless it's someone WE (feminists/women) don't like

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hmmm. I have a nice Fedora that I wear fairly often and it has not seemed to stop me from getting laid. I get quite a bit of compliments on it actually. But then again this follows the rule of women don't like certain things from certain men. The right kind of guy comes along and that thing that they didn't like the all of a sudden love.

I am surprised I never knew this stereotype existed though.

[–]Kwizkey1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I know a kid - absolute little punk - who always gloats and laughs about fedora wearers, (mostly on FB, he's got no voice out in the real world) but he is the epitome of the man beneath the hat: No friends, arrogant, unkempt, and he is a dickhead to people. I know he's on Reddit and I have a feeling he either hates RP like most Redditors or is on the subreddit himself...

[–]LaserSoundMusic -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just don't wear a fedora. I think thats one thing the red pill and feminism can agree on.

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