Why do women have rape fantasies? Is it the power? Is it control? Is it aggression?

On a subconscious level, it's actually none of those.

It really didn't make sense to me. After swallowing the RP, I still lacked in one area: the bed. Now, I wasn't bad in bed, my partner count increased like you wouldn't believe after TRP, and inevitably I became more and more experienced. I was pretty good. But not real good, if that makes sense.

I always followed the same pattern, with a high success rate: foreplay > cunnilingus (until orgasm) > penetration (until orgasm) > g spot stimulation (until squirt). This never failed me. But I was still missing something. As I fucked more and more chicks, I felt like I couldn't wait to follow a sequence steps to get a proper reaction. This is not good for congruence. I always did the action, expecting a reaction. I based the actions I took on her reaction(s), and that's killer for frame. You must act in accordance to you, independent of the reaction. It is not easy, but it is arguably the most important aspect of attractive masculinity.

During sex, I felt Alpha. And I was Alpha. But my actions during sex, albeit with good results, were beta. I wasn't in tune with what I wanted to do; instead I followed a series of steps that yielded a desired positive response from her. And when you are this attached to this order of things, if one fails, you tend to not know what to do.

"Oh no, this girl has huge clitoris, so stimulation will be harder than someone with a smaller one, which means I'll have to spend more time dining at the Y, which means it'll take longer to reach MY favorite step: penetration."

I love eating some pussy, but if a girl had a long clitoris, I started to project how long it would take me to stimulate her and move on to the other sequence. It is really was very formulaic and it took me off the right mood. This is not the kind of thinking you want be having. So in search for a better way, I asked the people I thought could help.

I spoke to a cousin of mine, who to me is like a big brother. Now mind you, this guy is 6'4, and weights like 230. Dude is a truck of muscles. And he's had more sexual partners than most men. And I asked him, how does he keep the flame alive? I mean, I get new pussy is new pussy, but how does he not get tired of doing the same move over and over again? From the mouth of a natural, with no knowledge of TRP:

Cousin: "You can't care. As long as it's consensual, do whatever the fuck you want. She will love it."

Me: "Why are you so sure?"

Cousin: "The moment she steps in to my bedroom, she stopped having a choice."

Dominance, in other words.

Now this really wasn't that eye-opening as a redpiller (though it served as reinforcement). I have been dominant after swallowing the pill, but I was still formulaic in my approach.

Then I searched the internet for answers. And I came across this TED Talk by Esther Perel, a psychotherapist who devoted years of her life to examine intimacy. Watch the whole thing.

Now ignoring some of the blue pill terminology (as expected due to the territory), nonetheless her research is absolutely sound. As depressingly pragmatic as I am (and reason I took the pill and actually liked the flavor), I now had the words of a natural, and the research of a professional. So I had the theory, what about its application?

Taking the plunge into your own desire has produced AMAZING results for me. Women are more willing to try things out with me, because they get to see the guy I often hide behind closed doors. The guy that clicks that porn category when alone. They get to see the filthy man in the bedroom, and then see the aloof, confident, socially dominant man when out for drinks. When you give into your own desires, regardless of what they are (or their order), you partner revels in the uninhibited demonstration of your selfishness. It has to be raw, it has to be congruent, it has to be organic. It has to be real. It's not about making love, it's about having great sex.

But it's about building this great sex. As Esther puts it: "Sex isn't something you do. Sex is a place you go." If great sex is a place and not something you do, to cultivate a great sex life and intimacy, you must "decorate" this place with YOUR personality. Maybe do some painting, add a new furniture, move things around, bring more people over; you get the analogy. This place has to be your own, and it has to be unique. You have to welcome her into it, and you must not changed a thing. Your alpha self must be selfish in the presence of another. Only then she will let go, and only then her wildest fantasies will come out.

I highly recommend watching the whole TED talk, as it also talks about what makes raw desire so powerful (and to redpillers, somewhat predictably, yet so contradicting to "love").

So, I have finally answered the question. Why do women fantasize about rape? Because in that "place" they don't have a say in the matter. And that's fine.