I recently had sex for the first time at 20... haven't developed oneitis because tbh I'm not the most attracted to her, though of course I appreciate that she's my first.

We're both in college, met on Tinder and we've banged twice in the last week. She's out of town this weekend for a birthday party. Here I was thinking we could be FWB the rest of the school year, and when I was scrolling through my Tinder, she had updated her bio, saying "in ____ for the weekend, act fast". Likely getting railed by another guy as I type this.

I myself plan to hopefully have 1 more plate in another week or two, just kinda made me think though that girls are hypergamous and reinforced the "it's just your turn" mentality.