I need some redpilled advice, because I do not understand men at all. I've never actually had this happen before. I thought guys were all about sex and romance.

I spent a day with a guy I took classes with. It was wonderful, but halfway through, I asked if it was hanging out or a date (because it wasn't clarified.) He said "I'd like to say this is hanging out. I fuck things up. If that's ok with you."

I have used that exact line before on people I was unattracted to. But he seemed attracted the day before, he was picking me up and kissing the top of my head and talking about checking my butt out. I don't believe people mean it when they say they'd rather not "mess things up" if they know you like them.

I am so confused, but had a wonderful time. He seems amazing, and I want to make him want me. Are there ways I could do that? Or is this a guy thing to just lose interest?

What do I do from here?