Hi guys, I've been trying around on pof.com and okcupid.com on and off for over a year now. I have yet to physically meet a single girl from them.

I have been lifting and dieting religiously for over a year and a half. Honestly I still don't look like I lift at all, probably because I have a job where I burn 1000+ calories per day walking and I have a hard time eating enough. I've been trying to change that recently. I do look 'fit' though.

Over the past few days, I started really revamping my dating profiles and using only really well-taken pictures. I use Photofeeler.com to gauge which pics are good. So far my best pics have just under 8.0 in 'attractiveness' (which would be top 20%) and around 6.0 in the other categories.

My bio is basically just me shedding the best light possible on myself in a modest way, family and friends are most important to me, these are all my productive hobbies, blah blah blah. And I throw in a little humor.

My messages to girls are always pretty short and simple conversation starters but eventually the girl stops responding. Or if I ask to meet up, they stop responding or flake out at the last minute.

Over time I've gotten an understanding that I probably won't get a hot girl from a dating site any time soon, so I've lowered my standards to message less... desirable women. I have the same issues with them, so I lower my standards further and further until I'm even messaging the most fat, ugly, disgusting whores with really shitty personalities. And I can't get them either.

Anyone know what I'm doing wrong? Have others had similar experiences? Did you ever fix it, if so, how?