Morning after first hookup

haughtyhay · 2019-08-15T16:46:18+00:00

Was it a bar thot ONS? Or is she plate material?

If bar slut 👉🏼 don’t text her, unless you wanna look like a bitch and be left on read

If potential plate 👉🏼 wait a few days, tell her to come over again

In either case, “had fun last night” puts you as the buyer of fun, not the seller. You’re the one giving value, not her

intl_plyrs_clb · 2019-08-15T19:05:03+00:00

Send whatever you feel like sending. Or don't. It doesn't matter.

Get back to the gym.

TheDero · 2019-08-15T19:29:28+00:00

It depends, if shes some random chick you have no further interest in, who cares let it go. She'll text you if she wants your dick again.

If youre interested in plating her, text won't hurt. Maybe something flirty rather than "had a fun time". Something that will keep her thinking of the past night.

Go hit the gym and then send something. Dont overthink it.

red_philosopher · 2019-08-15T16:45:49+00:00

People who worry about being too "invested" to send a follow-up text are way too invested already.

Just send the text.

embracingtheredpill · 2019-08-16T05:15:31+00:00

Yeah, text her "Had fun last night :)" to achieve:

Avoid being accused of anything-she may reply "me too :)" screenshot that
Builds positive reinforcement for putting out (he enjoyed it and I'll get a fun text when I fuck him)
Disqualifies you from just another fuckboi who never calls after sleeping with her. No better way to not unnecessarily cause drama, especially if it's likely you'll see her again (more likely than you think), and plate her

Bear-With-Bit · 2019-08-15T20:29:47+00:00

I feel you, OP.

You know what's interesting and almost disturbing? The nagging need to text a girl after a night like this.

Why? Why do I need to text her?

We had sex, we had fun, we can just walk away, and that's good too.

Why do I have this unreachable itch to continue corresponding with her? Where did it come from? What is the point of it?

Title	Morning after first hookup
Author	whipwhopthrowaway
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	August 15, 2019 4:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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