I am generally convinced that any man of "higher value" could come along and end my relationships. Maybe someone can change my mind.

Littleknownfacts · 2019-08-21T11:45:52+00:00

No inc*l content

Pontifex_Lucious-II · 2019-08-21T08:07:56+00:00

Basing your self-esteem on what the opposite sex thinks of you will leave everyone except Brad Pitt insecure.

Those women are playing a losing game: competing (wether they know it or not) in game of musical chairs where maybe 20% of them end up with something resembling the story in their heads.

The best revenge is living well. Fuck hookers and invest your money. Women are a fool’s game, unless you’re playing them for the fool.

WestsideMoonWalker · 2019-08-21T08:12:27+00:00

Meh, I'm a socially awk (like actually literally autistic), not particularly good looking (not bad, just, really depends on who is looking at me. Some people are really into my look and others, nah. My SO likes the look so...), and kinda silly and weird, and a massive fucking nerd.

There 100% are people out there who look better than me, are better at life than me, and are more socially skilled than I am. That being said, I also quite frankly don't really care, because all I can control is myself and my reactions to the world around me, and because I actually like myself.

Despite my self-deprecation, I actually think very highly of myself, and people generally like me a lot once they get to know me because in a lot of ways, I am pretty fucking awesome.

You cannot control what other people do, but you can control how you frame yourself to others, and how you view yourself. If you view yourself as the inferior man, you will get treated that way. If you view yourself as someone who is pretty awesome, and actually can back it up (even if you aren't perfect, you don't have to be, and I am certainly not), people will recognize that and see you positively.

TL;DR: Your self-esteem is trash. Learn to love yourself.

Red__Blue · 2019-08-21T07:51:20+00:00

If you want loyalty you can get a dog. We have a word for loyal, moral, and actively supportive women in a relationship: they're called unicorns. You can guess why.

MusicalMarceline · 2019-08-21T07:49:37+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. But there are women who actually want to build a life with 1 good guy. Please don't stop taking risks. You're young and young people can be shortsighted and stupid honestly. Make your commitment a prize, don't give it to just any girl who thinks she likes you, give it to the girl who really wants the best for both of you.

theoracleofosiris · 2019-08-21T09:52:17+00:00

A curious game, the only winning move is not to play.

i_have_a_semicolon · 2019-08-21T11:07:13+00:00

No other guy will ever be superior to my man who I've been with for 7 years because I won't have the chance to know them. And I'd need to know a dude to know if he's superior to my fiance where it matters to me most, which are not physical attractiveness, money, social skills. It's really the level of devotion and support and selflessness. I couldn't ask for a better partner, and you don't Kno those things about a man you're not getting to know. Emotional cheating isn't my thing. Not many men will put up with a woman who has Crohn's, ADHD, and bipolar. They want a perfect woman with no flaws. But I recognize that my flaws don't make be a bad partner. I'm happy to have a partnerr who recognizes it too

mandoa_sky · 2019-08-21T07:27:19+00:00

well you can't force someone to stay with you if they don't want to.

other than being a better boyfriend once you get a gf that is. and being good at choosing someone to be with

NewVerses · 2019-08-21T09:14:32+00:00

Not with that attitude.

If you don't believe you're worth a girl's time, why would she? I've met guys that I personally would have never gone for in a million years, who are happily married or in LTRs with pretty, funny, charming women. They know what they have to offer, are confident about it, and know what kind of woman to go for.

sexykavu · 2019-08-21T08:59:11+00:00

I know it wont make you feel any better, but i can say with 110 percnet certaintly that ive cucked guys hotter nad more socially capable than me. Many of them had higher status as well. Women are brutal man, and it's not always the 'better man' they go for haha

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CaptDeadlift · 2019-08-21T07:38:34+00:00

You can choose a less attractive Gf :)

Title	I am generally convinced that any man of "higher value" could come along and end my relationships. Maybe someone can change my mind.
Author	SlurpsNoodles
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Comments	57
Date	August 21, 2019 7:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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