So.. women in this sub (and irl too) are ALWAYS either perceived as elegant, Virgin Queen unwed feminine housewives that “deserve” a good man or as these masculine, aggressive “slut” CEO/COOs...

Firstly - you could be terrible, aggressive, insecure and completely mental even if you’re a Virgin. If anything - sexually inexperienced women are almost always 10x more insecure and hard to deal with (at least the first couple of years) because it’s the first time for them experiencing sex and genuine commitment.

Another thing is that women who make more $ than most men should be celebrated, not perceived as “aggressive” or “not feminine enough”. If a successful woman chooses to be with you, it’s because she genuinely wants YOU, not your wallet. That itself should technically be a huge relief for anyone since most women nowadays go for money and we all know it. Sure, there are cases where the girl is simply in love but with WC/MC girls you might never know whereas if the woman is UC it’s sure that she’s actually interested in you.

What I’ve seen is that men are raised since young kids to think that they’re unworthy unless they don’t become super successful exactly because they aren’t eligible enough to get a nice woman, secure a family and etc. I’m sure that most men at least subconsciously stress about finances and making money even if they’re very well paid because they want the best for their SO and kids (if there are any) but if the woman is making the same amount of cash, if not even more - unless you’re a workaholic or genuinely are in love with your job you’ll feel SO much more calm/better.

I’ve been raised in an UC family but the money was the only good thing about it. I was always able to afford whatever I wanted to but my mother was extremely abusive (both emotionally and physically) and my dad got killed, exactly because of his “status”. I had 2 choices: either stay with my mentally ill mother and continue using her credit card or make your own money and get out. I found some of my dad’s notes on his business models and at the age of FIFTEEN started working towards creating my own businesses. At almost 17 right now I am making 7 figures (annually) and I haven’t even graduated from school yet. It’s not because I want to be a man/I’m aggressive/I’m a slut/I’m not feminine/I’m not good enough to be “a housewife” but because as much as I’d like starting my own family in the distant future I wouldn’t EVER want to have to depend on another man in order to “maintain” my lifestyle. In a couple of months I’d be able to get out of the house on my own and not limit myself when it comes to anything and I won’t need anyone else’s help.

Sure, I still haven’t reached my dad’s success (I doubt I ever will be able to but I don’t feel the “need” to anyways) and I may not be able to buy the mansion that I want just yet. I’ll need to live in a place significantly smaller than where I’ve been my whole life for some time after I move out, maybe 1-2 years. But the difference is that I’m FREE. In the literal sense of it. I don’t see how that makes me “less feminine”. I love the people around me unconditionally, I treat everyone nicely, I’m a genuinely good person. I’m not aggressive or masculine. Some “powerful” women may be but that depends on the individual, NOT the gender. My mother was never a “career woman”, she has always been a housewife yet she’s anything other than nice, elegant, feminine, classy and etc. so please, for the love of God stop stereotyping.