Men accept all of a woman when they love her, both her awesome and her crazy. Women don't extend the same for men, even when they claim to love him. Another evidence of women being unable to love. [SERIOUS]

Electra_Cute · 2017-10-06T16:30:23+00:00

I am beginning to think this is being pushed by a lot of the males here because they have the experience of being unattractive and having zero standards.

Littleknownfacts · 2017-10-06T16:37:24+00:00

Just so you know, men initiate non-marriage break ups just as often as women do. So... Unless they are breaking up with women they love because reasons, that's undeniably false.

Love8Death · 2017-10-06T16:48:38+00:00

What about those women that stay in abusive relationships with crazy men--

Nah, let's stick with the one-sided narrative.

pinkgoldrose · 2017-10-06T17:41:52+00:00

This is one of the most solipsistic things I've ever read. Women don't have the capacity for compassion? Please qualify that statement. I really want to see you try when the majority of charitable volunteers in the US are female. Surely that indicates some sort of capability to have a scrap of compassion?

Butt-Factory · 2017-10-06T16:39:31+00:00

So, women can only commit to and fall in love with perfect, flawless men? Do those exist?

My partner is a human and therefore flawed. I love him anyway. I would like it if he ate a little healthier, was less cluttered, talked to a doctor about his insomnia issue, sulked less when he's having a bad day, got a haircut, etc.

Somehow I've managed to be committed to and in love with this man for 7 years. How do you figure this is possible? Am I magical?

wuboo · 2017-10-06T18:55:08+00:00

Totes why there is no such thing as men who cheat or walk out on their family.

/heavy sarcasm

Littleknownfacts · 2017-10-06T16:33:05+00:00

Your just getting all of the crazy out of your system now huh?

TheChemist158 · 2017-10-06T16:49:12+00:00

Christ man, how many of these threads are you going to make? How many will you have you make before you realize that the blues on here just don't agree with your crazy theories and restating them over and over doesn't make them any less wrong?

whichbladeN · 2017-10-06T17:00:34+00:00

Whereas a man's woman being crazy, having fucked up or 'disgusting' desires and thoughts and behaviors, doesn't make him love her less,

Just because you feel this way, doesn't mean other men don't think less of their partner for the things they do.

philomexa · 2017-10-06T17:56:36+00:00

Whereas a man's woman being crazy, having fucked up or 'disgusting' desires and thoughts and behaviors, doesn't make him ~~love her less,~~any less THIRSTY.

Men's ~~capacity for compassion~~ endless thirst allows them to ~~understand why~~ put up with a woman [who] has these desires or thoughts and behaviors, and ~~accept them anyways.~~ tolerates them so long as she starfishes him on a semi regular basis.

fixed that for you.

Low standards, thirst, and in inability to demand better is not a testament to a man's sense of love, it's just an indictment of man's proclivity to dumpster dive to get a nut off.

TheBlackQuill · 2017-10-06T19:27:10+00:00

Bullshit. Men also have limits of tolerating women's craziness. Are you telling me that men love physically abusive women too??? Yeah right. 🙄 Another point would be, could it be that those guys who put up with it just have no other choice/desperate? How is this any different from desperate girls who want a BB?

quotient_is · 2017-10-07T01:41:56+00:00

How do you come to the conclusion that women are incapable of having compassion? Most commonly agreed upon scientific evidence regarding this topic suggests that men and women are equally compassionate, but they are likely to express/experience it differently.

Yesterday, journalists at Huffington Post Live asked me to comment on whether women are more compassionate than men. Scientists in general tend to cringe at any strong black-and-white statements of this kind since we know there is no data to support such strong claims. If you ask a neuroscientist to distinguish a male from a female brain, for example, s/he would have a difficult time doing so. Although differences have been detected (for example, women appear to make greater use of both hemispheres of the brain and therefore have a slightly thicker corpus callosum—the part of the brain that bridges the two hemispheres), the differences are subtle and there is no single area of the brain that we can say clearly distinguishes a male brain from a female brain.

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Moreover, whether they are researching animals or humans, males or females, scientists find that compassion is innate and instinctual across the board. As I discussed at length in my previous post, research with animals and humans shows that we naturally have an impulse to help others who are suffering. This tendency, that Dacher Keltner has coined the "compassionate instinct," seems to have ensured our survival. Research by Stanford University's Robert Sapolsky suggests that this instinct is linked to thriving and improved reproduction in primates. In other words, compassion is natural and no gender differences have emerged across these studies.

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One brain imaging study, however, found that men and women appear to differ with regards to their brain activation during compassion. This study by Roberto Mercadillo of the National Autonomous University of Mexico compared men and women's brain activation while they were experiencing compassion. He asked participants to lie in an fMRI scanner and showed them sad images meant to elicit compassion. Both men and women reported experiencing the same levels of compassion in response to the photographs. However, the regions of the brain activated in men were different than those in women. While this study does not suggest that one gender experiences compassion more than the other, it suggests that the genders may differ in how compassion is experienced and expressed.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/feeling-it/201306/are-women-really-more-compassionate

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Love8Death · 2017-10-06T17:39:05+00:00

Have you never broken up with a woman OP?

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