What is sex apppeal to you?

wub1234 · 2017-05-04T16:21:29+00:00

I suppose I have always been attracted to glamorous women rather than the cute, girl-next-door type.

There are lots of good looking women out there, but all I can say is that sometimes, very rarely, you meet someone and there is just a connection there. And I have found that it's pretty much instantaneous. It's partly intellectual, partly physical, maybe partly spiritual.

That's why the whole hook up thing is just utterly unappealing to me.

siaynoq11 · 2017-05-04T16:45:11+00:00

I'm a woman.

To me, sex appeal is tied to charisma, which is connected to how someone relates to their body. Actors, athletes, sometimes musicians have this. They're rooted in their bodies and their senses, and fully inhabit the present moment.

It's also about bringing inner strength outward. Someone can have all the muscles they want, but if they don't have that sense of INNER dignity, power, and magnetism, they're just not that interesting to me. I think this is where RPers get confused with the dark triad stuff. It's not about being evil, or using power for malicious intent. It IS about having a strong will internally, and loving the sensuality of living in the moment.

I would have no idea how to teach this to someone.

haikufun · 2017-05-04T17:24:13+00:00

It is something that comes across on an animal level. It is instant and hits like a baseball bat. Some good looking people have it, but not all, and sometimes a random ugly person has it. It probably is a combination of looks and smell.

Hairbrainer · 2017-05-04T18:14:20+00:00

A confident woman. A woman who isn't trying to play dumb or keep quiet until spoken to is a quality I enjoy seeing in a woman.

abicus4343 · 2017-05-04T23:49:43+00:00

Sex appeal stems from confidence, charisma and a high sex drive. It shows in voice tone, mannerisms, the way a person moves and probably scent/pheromones. You know it when you see it. A very sexy person just oozes confidence and charisma.

Also with men it is his sex drive, the way they look at a woman like they want to eat her alive and let it be known what they want, no hiding it or insecurity or apologizing, just feeling his sexuality and attraction like a man. That is super sexy.

wtknight · 2017-05-04T19:47:26+00:00

A combination of looks, body mannerisms and personality. Voice can also add to or detract from sex appeal.

despisedlove2 · 2017-05-04T22:42:18+00:00

It is a mix of visual and largely non verbal cues. Voice sometimes plays a role.

Very hard to define, but you just know if a woman has it.

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IamTheWalkingMenu · 2017-05-04T21:45:41+00:00

Hot guy who exudes power and confidence (and no not a felon, inmate, gang banger, ill mannered or uncouth sociopath although a few tats ok esp if covered by a killer suit 👌🏻) that has a deep voice and also smells great. With nice hands.

[deleted] · 2017-05-04T20:24:34+00:00

Height, beard, shoulders, callouses, sad eyes, and integrity.

reepbot · 2017-05-05T01:52:00+00:00

When I see a woman with sex appeal my brain turns to mush and my heart beats a million miles an hour.

abicus4343 · 2017-05-05T03:19:15+00:00

Ya, thats my point, sexy and attractive are different things.

slavicgypsygirl · 2017-05-05T12:52:01+00:00

Sex appeal to me = intense-magnetic-biological attraction.

Decapricia · 2017-05-07T02:01:31+00:00

Gorgeous blue eyes / dark hair Strong jawline Solid frame (broad shoulders) Good height (no pre-6 footers!)

[deleted] · 2017-05-04T16:18:03+00:00

What I find sexually appealing is a member of my own species who has the opposite reproductive role. Even better if they're healthy and strong mentally and physically and have normal proportions and ratios as well as both intelligence and a worldview that's similar to mine. That shit turns me right the hell on.

insoucianc · 2017-05-04T16:31:16+00:00

Traits that I feel would produce happy and healthy offspring. This is largely governed by my environment and to a lesser extent by my endocrinology.

PurpleBanner · 2017-05-04T16:35:13+00:00

sex appeal is a tall blonde white woman with melon-sized breasts. /s

[deleted] · 2017-05-04T16:21:01+00:00

People I wanna fuck have sex appeal.

trpobserver · 2017-05-04T20:48:37+00:00

Sex appeal is just being attractive

Title	What is sex apppeal to you?
Author	kkohl98
Upvotes	4
Comments	49
Date	May 4, 2017 3:59 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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