He's 31 and she's 41. I feel uncomfortable watching them interact because it doesn't feel right, and I want to know if any others agree.

GridReXX · 2016-01-07T14:47:57+00:00

She looks tired.

Not ugly.

Not even old.

More like fatigued.

Like she needs to gain 10 lbs and eat fresh fruits and veggies and maybe get into Yoga...not Pilates. Pilates would just make her look like a roid.

That said, for 31, he also looks aged to me.

He looks 42.

He has to stop injecting that ish into his body and stop expanding his body past natural limits.

Finally...

IMO they both should have married people their own age. They're at different stages in their life. He wants to have fun. She wants to go on trips to Tuscany and chillax.

ianturpiesmoustache · 2016-01-07T11:23:21+00:00

His body and his attitude are both foul. I feel so sorry for his wife, having to put up with his shit. Ugh.

appencapn · 2016-01-07T10:19:47+00:00

I honestly think this guy probably had some issues before he got married.

wub1234 · 2016-01-07T09:26:06+00:00

It's probably best for him to settle down now before the side-effects of steroids really start to kick in.

dragoness_leclerq · 2016-01-07T10:05:12+00:00

I'm sorry, I lost my shit after the back shaving bit.

Okay anyway, he seems very insecure and image conscious which is actually very sad. That said, marriage doesn't seem to be for him. I have no idea why he got married, especially to that woman. They need to be divorced.

rulenumber303 · 2016-01-07T17:10:26+00:00

Work, kids, work, kids, that's not why we were put here on this earth...

Hahahahahahahahaha oh imma pee myself laughing. This is what 3 kids getcha if you aren't rich and are still gonna do the job right. You can still stay fit but probably not popping out all over in the right places type of fit.

Sad little manchild.

midnightvulpine · 2016-01-07T11:25:40+00:00

He sounds like a child to me. He has responsibilities now, that he took on. A man handles what he's gotten himself into, one way or another. Either devote time to your family and fix it or move on if you can't bring yourself to do what you promised her with the vows.

People like this are why the divorce rate is so high. Note, not men. People. Because women do this too.

joseremarque · 2016-01-07T14:19:58+00:00

Another thing that occurs to me is that what the man wants is presented as "bad" and what the woman wants is "good". He is "bad" because he wants to improve his body and enjoy his life. She is "good" because she wants to control him for his own good.

Yet another pop culture moment, brought to you by the Feminine Imperative.

(Incidentally, when I looked at this a second time, it occurred to me that she is Snooki in 20 years; and he is The Situation or Ronnie in 10 years. Jersey Shore -- The Middle Aged Years.)

damaskrose · 2016-01-07T10:45:36+00:00

He's an example of a guy with an okay but very bland/wide face and an over-built body. He seems pretty low IQ with a horrible, narcissistic personality. Many women would have zero interest in him. But he could probably find a body builder woman who'd take him on.

His wife needs to walk away from him and start again with someone else. It's no longer a relationship. They are two strangers to each other. There's something strange about the way she's talking, as though she's had work done to her face (probably in a desperate attempt to try to keep up with him).

Xemnas81 · 2016-01-07T14:57:16+00:00

Technically if hypergamy is accurate, she's out of his league lol.

[deleted] · 2016-01-07T14:14:57+00:00

There's a lot going on here.

OP is correct that he is panicking because being a married man limits him from banging JWOWW and Snooki lookalike wannabes -- which is what he wants to be out there doing. And if he weren't married, he would be doing exactly that, because he could. Hell, he probably already has cheated on his wife. He is very physically attractive and a lot of women would have no-strings-attached sex with him. He's experiencing all this angst because he already has cheated or knows he easily could, and his marriage and kid limit him, and he doesn't like it.

He wants to be, and can be, out there fucking young single girls. She is well settled into middle age and wants a homebody life. She's probably a former party girl who slutted around as a younger woman, but wants a stable, caring, controllable man. She views him as her Alpha provider -- he's hawt, but he has a stable job and gave her a kid. That's what she wants now.

Incidentally, she's with him because he's very physically attractive -- but that's unfortunately all she got. She got a hawt, very physically well built shell of a man whose SMV is way above hers and they both know it. She's losing control of him and he's chomping at the bit to get out there and fuck younger women because he can.

The age difference is key here. I've always said men shouldn't marry any woman more than 2 years older than he is. This is why. She's too old for him. He's too young for her. They want different things in life right now.

wazzup987 · 2016-01-07T09:31:56+00:00

real life poe?

ThrowawayCactus6012 · 2016-01-07T14:27:42+00:00

I didn't watch the whole video, but I kept wondering: Why did he even get married at all? And now he's got kids, yet all he wants to do is party and go out to clubs. What in the name of?

That aside, why is he even on a TV show? This is why I don't watch shows like that. The fact that shows like this still exist is a testament to the fact that, no matter how much of a variety and wide array of entertainment exists out there, people will still watch this kind of crap.

Title	He's 31 and she's 41. I feel uncomfortable watching them interact because it doesn't feel right, and I want to know if any others agree.
Author	neptunesunrise
Upvotes	3
Comments	32
Date	January 7, 2016 9:06 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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