I found this post on TRP and wondered how it got so much traction (As of right now 350+ points, 330+ comments).

It's about a guy who was together with a girl for 6 months and found out she gives happy ending massages. He knew she gives massages on the side, but whenever he asked her about it she shut it down and changed the subject. He found out because some guy at his gym made a remark about it.

I understand that it's wrong that she did not tell him about it on her own, but I can also understand that she might have felt bad about it and did not wanted to ruin her chance of a relationship.

What I don't understand is the way TRP talks about it.

First the guy clearly does not care

IDGAF that she jacked off a bunch of dudes for money.

as would I. It's just her job. I don't see it any different than dating a stripper, a porn star or even a prostitute. It's just her job and if I myself were hot enough to earn easy money this way I wouldn't hesitate to do so. I don't think it makes a person bad in any way. A job is a job and money is money.

For me this doesn't even count as cheating. In the same way as a actor that has to kiss or have pretend sex for a scene doesn't count as cheating for me. And I don't understand why there is so much outrage, why he is considered such a beta and why it is surprising that he stayed.

But you know what surprised me the most? The feedback he got. Got upvoted and he got gold for being such an 'amazing and understanding guy'. Apparently if a woman lies to her bf about having sex for money, he should just deal with it.

Like this for example. In my mind he is an amazing guy for being so understanding and calm about it. If I loved the girl and everything else in the relationship was perfect I would do the same. I wouldnt even call it "dealing with it", because it wouldn't even be a problem for me.

Also another thing that is common in the comment section is the childish way they talk about prostate massages.

Someone has GOT to PM him and bring up the prostate massage. Oh, man... too funny

She sticks her fingers in dudes' assholes and diddles their bum. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

They talk about it in a way as if giving prostate massages was the worst thing she could do. The guy knows she gives happy ending massages and in my mind a handjob is even better if she makes sure the whole area has some sensation. Like fondling the balls and massaging the prostate. It increases the sensation and creates a better orgasm.

As a guy that has his best orgasms this way I don't understand how guys can be against them so much and why it is even suprising or worth telling him about.

Like in response to sending him a PM and telling him about those others said

No, nobody needs to do that. Don't advocate harassment. Let this idiot be an idiot.

He's going to read this thread. He won't be able to help himself.

Why would this make it any worse for that guy?

He doesn't care that his gf gives happy ending massages, so why would it make it that much worse if she gives really really great happy ending massages?

tl;dr:

Convince my view that dating a prostitute isn't bad.