How can a woman test her SMV?[self.purplepilldebate]

[deleted] · 2015-09-16T20:49:49+00:00

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prodigy2throw · 2015-09-16T16:08:45+00:00

How many instagram followers do you have? How many men are messaging you on a daily basis? How attractive are they?

[deleted] · 2015-09-16T17:56:32+00:00

yes, I had one boyfriend who proposed to me but I did not want to get married to him. he wasn't that tall

Hello, PostNationalism. How is your morning going?

rudeawakening4444 · 2015-09-16T17:54:46+00:00

BMI and hips-waist ratio

I happen to be disliked amongst women or they avoid me

Bad sign. People are usually disliked and avoided for a reason.

Anarchkitty · 2015-09-16T18:37:20+00:00

Go to an old video arcade or magic shop, and see if they have one of those old machines where you grab the handle and the lights go on to tell you how attractive you are.

Or buy your own!

caesarfecit · 2015-09-16T20:19:03+00:00

SMV for women basically goes like this:

1 - Hot enough for a one-night stand - 6-7+ on the 1-10 scale. Pretty self-explanatory. Mostly depends on the guy's standards.

2 - Hot enough for FWBs - 7-8+ on the 1-10 scale. Past this point, looks have diminishing returns. Being hot will help grease the wheels, but this is the highest point looks alone will get you with any quality guy.

3 - Attractive enough to date - This means enough looks to get you past the first two gates plus a decent enough personality that the guy likes hanging out with you and will show you off to their friends. Basically - don't be neurotic and have the ability to form rapport and chemistry and you'll find yourself here no problem if you get out enough.

4 - Attractive enough to commit to - At this point, a girl needs to have a few things that make her unique and interesting to guys. The key to acing this level is to have the right set of traits that make you special to a guy. My suggestion would be to cultivate the traits most girls are weak on. What's really sad is there's plenty of girls out there who have good traits on this level, but have issues with the first three levels - like the proverbial "nice guy".

5 - Attractive enough to marry - This is basically just a function of long-term compatibility with a guy, and is impossible to predict beforehand. This is also the level where character matters the most. Things like honesty, loyalty, and integrity pay big dividends here and a lack of them will screw you if they didn't before.

[deleted] · 2015-09-16T21:00:14+00:00

The problem here is that this is like asking, in a barter economy, "How rich am I?" It's not an unanswerable question per-se, but value depends on what the people who have the things you want think about the value of the things you have.

If you only want oranges and you have hundreds of fishheads, then whether or not you are rich or poor is completely contingient on whether or not the guy selling oranges is willing to give you a lot of them for not a lot of fishheads.

Even after you make the 'sale', if I prefer apples, you're not going to impress me with your massive 'riches' of oranges.

rudeawakening4444 · 2015-09-16T15:25:10+00:00

Don't they have a test about it at heartiste or something ?

rudeawakening4444 · 2015-09-16T16:42:45+00:00

I guess I'll never know. No one knows

Lonny_zone · 2015-09-16T15:35:52+00:00

Go to high-class bars and clubs every Saturday for a year. The hottest men who hit on you, sleep with you, and then call you again are probably a good indicator.

rudeawakening4444 · 2015-09-16T15:47:48+00:00

if SMV can't be adequately tested then how do we know if its real?? im soo confused

rudeawakening4444 · 2015-09-16T16:44:23+00:00

It seems irrelevant what your SMV is. Are you attracted to the men hitting on you? Great. Accept a date. Are you never attracted to the men hitting on you?

rudeawakening4444 · 2015-09-16T18:54:54+00:00

I don't know but I think stereotypes and my environment are the main reason why I am not able to make the most out of my SMV value which I think has potential.

Online I get a lot of pretty good feedback from guys which is surprising but in the real world it's like men take me for granted.

I remember going to this small get together with some friends and the men didn't really socialize with me nor seem interested. Later that day, a friend who attended the same event called me up and told me that once I left, the guys were saying how "pretty and sexy' I was. I was surprised because they didn't seem all that phased by my presence. This happens all the time. I'll hear from a third party about how guys think I'm good looking but when I'm around they don't actually show any interest causing me to feel like I'm not that attractive. However with lighterskinned or non black women, they outwardly express their interest by being engaged in conversations, flirting and building solid friendships in public.

I'm under the impression that its taboo to openly express romantic interest in me because I'm a darker skinned black woman.

joseremarque · 2015-09-16T19:20:54+00:00

How attractive are the men who are willing to commit to you?

kalse2 · 2015-09-16T21:12:36+00:00

If you're really interested in testing this out and don't care about risking some minor negative consequences: You can try and use the female tactics TRP warns men against to get beta orbiters. (read up on oneitis and examples of women gas lighting and stringing men along) If you get a ton you're in the HB 6-7.5 range. If you have trouble getting any, you're either <6 or> 8. With that tidbit of information you can probably figure the appropriate range. I've seen this approach work out very well for two 6's I knew in college. If you see absolutely nothing wrong with this though...well, I'm not telling you what you should do.

If you want to soft test it you can also try giving IOIs (indicators of interest) to hot guys and see how many of them approach.

Honestly I don't think it matters. People have different preferences. I wouldn't sperg out over numbers like most of the people here, personally I just go after girls I find attractive, take rejections as I see them, (only been rejected once though) and not worry much about the rest.

Title	How can a woman test her SMV?[self.purplepilldebate]
Author	rudeawakening4444
Upvotes	4
Comments	89
Date	September 16, 2015 3:10 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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