How to add value to the life of a man who has it all? I feel like here on RPW this question is asked a lot to commenters who say they want a high value man. “Why do you deserve him?” “How do you add value to his life?” Usually it’s asked from a perspective of the woman THINKING she deserves a high value man and other commenters seeking to remind her that no, in fact, she may not. But I want to approach it from the other side today. I want to know what value I as a woman can bring to a man who is high value and seems to have it all already.

He’s very successful, well rounded in his way of looking at the world, and able to handle himself in any situation. Our personalities are very similar in terms of being idealistic, visionary, realistic optimists, and good at reading people. I mention that because those are the aspects of my personality that I feel really set me apart and help me add value to the lives of others.....only he already has the same qualities so he doesn’t need them from me.

I know the two most obvious things are sex and a soft place to land....but as TRP preaches loud and clear, he certainly doesn’t need to commit to me just for sex when he could get it from random tinder girls if he wanted, and he already has a pretty solid support network of family members and male friends that he’s very close with and can go to for encouragement and support if he needs it. So again, doesn’t NEED me.

So the long and short of it is, I’m feeling pretty insecure because I feel like he has way more value to add to MY life than I have to add to his, and I want to know what unique value do you think an LTR adds to a guy that he can’t get from himself, his friends/family members, or random hookups. Help a discouraged girl out.