Female coworkers laugh at me because my wife gave me a sponge bath for being sick.

DRMMR76 · 2015-01-28T16:27:27+00:00

don't talk to your female coworkers about anything that's not directly related to work.

bitethepillowbitch · 2015-01-28T17:22:04+00:00

What a sweet thing to do. I do not understand that lack of feminine care and nurturing.

FLFTW16 · 2015-01-28T23:52:09+00:00

Comments section is missing this one insight: these women are nurses. Their very profession is to nurse sick people, yet when OP presents a situation in which the man closest to them needs a nurse, they refuse to help him. It goes to show that they are shitty nurses, and that the idea of women as "caring" and "nurturing" is a myth, at least in regards to men. Maybe they can care and nurture children but they clearly refuse to do this for men who are only ever supposed to be strong and healthy.

I don't think it was always like this. There are many thousands of stories of wounded soldiers in field hospitals receiving tender, motherly like care from nurses during wars in the 60s, 50s, and 40s. I believe that contemporary women are severely lacking in femininity and the ability to care and nurture men to the point where they refuse to even perform their calling for the person they supposedly "love."

IllimitableMan · 2015-01-28T17:58:41+00:00

Male nurse here. I'm usually surrounded by "strong independent women" so you know what to expect.

A bunch of vapid, narcissistic, judgemental, unloving cunts.

so my wife gave me a sponge bath because I'm having chills and its a pain to get up to shower.

Sounds like a good, caring wife trying to nurse her man back to health. Makes sense, as she relies on you.

Later in work I ask my coworkers if they would do the same thing if ever their husband got sick and needed to work during the day and all of them said "no" and laugh at me.

Then they all have the relationship value (or as that guy's new post calls it RMV) of a hooker. An uncaring woman is an unattractive woman.

I wonder if they are jealous because most of them have terrible relationships with their partners or their just entitled.

Feminists taught them to act like self-entitled cunts devoid of compassion, care or love for men. They do not know how to make men happy or treat men well. They view "caring for their significant other" as weak and oppressive, not the feminine duty of a good woman. As such, their views on relationships, men and sex are distorted. They make bad partners, no man worth his shit they'd want would put up with "them and their shit" and no man they could get would be dominant enough to keep them.

That's the funny thing about feminism, it's feminised men and masculinised women, so now even if you are a dominant man, because the women aren't so feminised you need to be EVEN MORE DOMINANT than your ancestors to hold the leadership position in the relationship. All this whilst her friends and the culture around her try to poison her against men. The perverse and distasteful irony with this is that more dominance is required than ever before due to how women have masculinised and become more dominant themselves, but due to the state of society it's become harder than ever for men to be dominant. As masculinity in men is demonised, whilst masculinity in women is simply feminism. Not only that, but masculinised women aren't attractive, and a lot of guys nope the fuck out of even bothering with dominant women. They actively repulse many men. As such, the decline will continue and as the cultural marxists wanted, the family unit will continue to erode taking down civilization along with it.

Stories_of_Red · 2015-01-28T17:58:35+00:00

I ask my coworkers if they would do the same thing if ever their husband got sick and needed to work during the day and all of them said "no" and laugh at me.

Most women in the West today are unable to comprehend the notion that they should actually want to take care of their partner due to loving the partner, let alone that they should do so out of reciprocal loyalty to the partner.

But god help the guy who thinks he is not obligated to provide back rubs, money, listening time, etc., all immediately upon demand.

MattyAnon · 2015-01-28T20:20:29+00:00

Dumb question.

Their laughter = shit test.

And a measure of how awful they are to their sla... husbands.

[deleted] · 2015-01-28T23:47:54+00:00

Your wife is pretty damn good. It's one thing to have someone marry you in the prime of your life with cash in bank, it's another for them to support you when you're down.

kick6 · 2015-01-28T23:54:46+00:00

Miserable cunts who don't realize that being a cunt to their SO is part of the reason they're miserable.

No surprise.

Channel_oreo · 2015-01-29T00:52:57+00:00

When I worked on an ambulance I came into contact with a lot of nurses. I never met one that was dating material. Most of them were incredibly obese, ugly, rude and self centered. It really changed my view of the care they provide and I do everything possible not to put myself in their care.

Moolg86 · 2015-01-28T17:51:40+00:00

probably a lot of single mothers

source: Male nurse in Nursing school

drallcom3 · 2015-01-29T14:38:15+00:00

Don't talk about (really) personal stuff at work. Especially not problems.

Never tell women about any weaknesses, like you being too sick to shower. You have a good wife, but women look down on weak men (as a TRP reader you should know that).

You made some mistakes. Don't do them again.

vandaalen · 2015-01-28T21:16:17+00:00

The moment a man shows weakness is the moment that women will gladly jump on him and test how far they can go and test the shit out of him, especially if they pose the majority of a group.

My main-contractor is a kindergarten group, and I've even witnessed that multiple times with little boys. If they don't like a boy (and that's always the case if he is of a weak nature), or a boy they like will have a weak mental moment, they will provoke him and sometimes even bitch at him. You won't believe how far they'll sometimes go.

Since they trust me, I have also witnessed many chats about the children and you also won't believe how cruel and cold they can be in making fun of the weaker boys.

redpillbanana · 2015-01-28T17:58:05+00:00

Women can't stand weak men, this is why women derisively talk about the man flu (and actually it turns out that high testosterone is correlated with a weaker immune system).

megadeth9999 · 2015-01-29T11:37:59+00:00

Have you been to /r/fatpeoplehate? It's full of comments about independent female health care workers. :-)

khxddr · 2015-01-28T17:44:18+00:00

I don't quite understand this post. If you're well enough to go to work, you're not sick enough to want a sponge bath. How does that even help you? Take a 10 second shower and then have her massage you.

But yes, I've noticed that many people believe men don't deserve loving care when they're sick. Wanting help makes you less manly, so you deserve ridicule instead. Maybe you've got a "man flu" etc.

Some people would say that the problem is that you've set your expectations based on how your mom treated you. I don't agree entirely. I did learn this kind of behavior from my own mom, but not in the way they mean it. Rather than projecting my mom onto my SO, I internalized that that's how I need to treat the people I love. Then I was surprised when I didn't get the same back.

Then I realized it's not about projecting your mom. The problem is the power balance. The kid being helped is weaker than his mom. The wife being helped is weaker than her husband. When your wife helps you, it makes you look weaker than her, and women hate that.

Title	Female coworkers laugh at me because my wife gave me a sponge bath for being sick.
Author	Channel_oreo
Upvotes	10
Comments	56
Date	January 28, 2015 4:25 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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