How do i respond to an IOI?

bluesnsouls · 2019-10-03T16:23:10+00:00

Most people can only remain calm in situations they've been before, you just need to keep going until you stop freaking out.

Jabbermouth · 2019-10-03T16:27:46+00:00

IOI from attractive girl: approach

IOI from unattractive girl: ignore

ToraChan23 · 2019-10-03T17:54:55+00:00

If you freak out when someone shows interest in you, that means you have a low opinion of yourself.

Get your self esteem up and become content with who you are, so when someone else thinks you're valuable, it won't be such a surprise to you.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-10-03T16:48:07+00:00

Taking baby steps over time can yield big results. First start by smiling back or holding eye contact until they look away. Then you can start approaching them with a quick risk-free question like asking them if there are any good coffee shops around. Giving compliments like saying, "I like your jacket" can also be an easy way to take that small action where you can always just eject and avoid coming off as creepy.

PayneGreyWolf · 2019-10-03T16:25:30+00:00

Grow balls. If a girl is showing you interest you don't freak out you walk up to the broad introduce yourself, get her name, make small talk and get her number

Kn31 · 2019-10-03T18:22:51+00:00

Make moves niga! Too many people are afraid of failure. The BEST fail all the time. Remember false confidence, I'm so awesome she'll want me. Real confidence, regardless what happens I'm fine.

Onein1024th · 2019-10-03T15:48:45+00:00

keep doing what you were doing

it's obviously working

Fat7ace · 2019-10-03T19:26:43+00:00

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-10-03T17:45:08+00:00

You approach, no hesitation.

zHelios · 2019-10-03T19:15:35+00:00

Hi my name is ... What's yours?

DrezelRS · 2019-10-03T19:09:07+00:00

Can someone define IOI?

agjrpsl · 2019-10-03T18:12:58+00:00

Wear a diaper in case you piss yourself

FarShip3 · 2019-10-03T20:22:18+00:00

I have found that when I really slow down my speech, focus on frame and tonality, it makes a massive difference in terms of me not freaking out. I have started to get so good at this that it makes the woman feel nervous, it's hilarious.

Nighthawkdragon8 · 2019-10-03T20:48:55+00:00

Honestly I don't relate cuz I usually get a boost in emotion when I get an IOI. Id say look at it more positively, but honestly try to figure out why you are freaking out. like whats the bigger issue behind it.

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-10-04T00:41:40+00:00

I used to seriously freak da fuq out. Like wuuuut?? Is this fat booty queen staring at me with those cock hungry eyes? And now I’m like- really? This b gon act like she don see me. Ok.

I say all of this in a funny way but this is all trill real spill

Infernir · 2019-10-04T02:15:06+00:00

The most important thing is to remember that girls get nervous too. Far more than guys maybe even.

I was in a class this Monday filled with cute girls, and maybe 3 guys. I came in late and sat between two chicks.

I didn't move my body at all and a really cute girl brushed her legs up on me... I felt everything since we both had gym shorts on. I never looked at her only at the professor and concentrated on taking good notes because I didn't want to generate mental energy on how to chat her up or close a number. Big mistake.

Way before class ends she starts packing up her stuff, then just jets out of the room in a fluster.

Will I ever get a chance with her again? Who knows but remember two things

Act fast
Remember girls are humans too and can get a lot more nervous than guys so the number 0 rule before act fast is MAKE THEM COMFORTABLE.
Make them comfortable to express their sexuality and flirt with you or plain talk about sex, women actually desire it too.

I have gotten a wide range of IoIs from girls. Some guys won't even act on a 10/10 IOI on a scale of 10... the women lightly brushing her legs on me was a 5/10 IOI and I didn't act, if she fully turned her head at me even if she wasn't a really cute chick which she was, despite how she looked I would still start giving her a lot of attention since that would turn it into a 10/10 IOI. With a 10/10 IOI it means it's extremely easy to escalate if you play your cards right and understand emotional intelligence you can have them in bed in a few hours.

Despite all of this, lets say I got a 10/10 IOI from her or just decided to chat her up with the 5/5 IOI? What do I do? Be light hearted, gentle, casual, talk about relevant things to both of you then start asking about her and based on all her replies go through the shit test or whatever, keep escalating the conversations and getting her in your frame, lead her to do something... ANYTHING. See if she submissively follows. Use deniability to lead her back to your room.

Domebeers · 2019-10-03T22:00:40+00:00

You don't...IS THIS SHIT NOT ON THE SIDEBAR?

Dude...you do not respond to an IOI, and if you want to be real, you give IOD's to IOI's. Have you not read anything about Game? This is basic shit man.

You wait till you receive 3 IOI's until you even think about giving her one. This is literally like Mystery Method chapter 1 shit. I know that shit is old but it's a classic for a reason.

THE BASIC CONCEPT IS TO KEEP THE GIRL CHASING YOU.

Anyway, do you even know the chart, bro? https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http%3A%2F%2Fi45.tinypic.com%2F33elrae.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Ftherationalmale.com%2Ffield-reports-comment-page-2-comments%2Fcomment-page-10%2F&docid=12MUg2oYregFEM&tbnid=u165otTRCbXemM%3A&vet=10ahUKEwi40_TqioHlAhX_IDQIHZhgB_MQMwhCKAAwAA..i&w=1064&h=1599&bih=969&biw=1920&q=ioi%20iod%20chart&ved=0ahUKEwi40_TqioHlAhX_IDQIHZhgB_MQMwhCKAAwAA&iact=mrc&uact=8

alvaro10101 · 2019-10-04T09:16:26+00:00

Approaching girls you ain't attracted to won't help you progress.

Zone_Box · 2019-10-03T17:29:53+00:00

IOI?

Title	How do i respond to an IOI?
Author	holyrasta
Upvotes	75
Comments	76
Date	October 3, 2019 3:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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