Inceldom might seem widespread but it's concentrated among young men, most of them will eventually figure out how to be attractive. It's actually not that big deal that women are only attracted to the top 20 percent if most men get to spend some time in the top 20 percent.

In the yee old traditional days, young men had to commit to a woman just to get laid. They had little recourse if she dead bedroomed him or was just a bitch in general.

Nowadays young men can sleep around more than almost any of their grandparents could have dreamed of. You don't even have to be that successful or productive. You just have to socialize a lot of work out a bit. And when they want to settle down later they can do that too, and their wife will help them support the household. Or they can keep messing around if that's what they prefer. Learning game and lifting might seem hard, but it's alot easier than getting a medical degree, which is what men in my parent's generation needed to get ONE quality girl.

Women now have to try to establish a career and are expected to contribute to their household income until they have kids. Then they take a major hit to all of the hard-earned career progress they made over the last decade of their life. They're choosing from a group of men that's less commital and less productive(relative to them atleast) than ever before. Yeah if you're really pretty and white you can probably become a housewife with a MRS degree and live happy ever after, but how many women are really pretty and white?

The sexual revolution has given men OPTIONALITY, they have a rougher beginning, but on average they'll have more fun in the long run. The opposite is true for women. They have more requirements than ever, and they're less happy than ever. Suicide rates, OD rates, subjective happiness studies, antidepressants use, show women today, particularly older women are less happy than ever before. The drop in life expectancy among whites post-2008 was almost entirely driven by deaths among older white women.