I have a few.

If she refuses to give head, swallow or anal, does it mean she just doesn't like you that much?

Some girls initiate oral themselves, but many don't. Does it mean they wait for you to tell them or bend their head down? What do you do if they refuse, fuck them and next them? Kick them out of bed?

Do all girls like the dirty talk in bed, like calling them sluts and cock hungry whores? Do you just do that with a new girl, or have some kind of a talk about it first? Ease into it via multiple sessions?

I understand that TRP perspective is about leading, but what if she doesn't follow? Do you compromise at all on any of those?

EDIT: I pretty much forgot to mention the core of this post. In the past I found out that I've missed out on really dirty girls in bed, but only because those were the ones who won't tell you what they really want and expect you to figure out, which I rarely did and they didn't give me second chance.