Anyone catch the post on ask men today about guys giving up on girls?

TheDero · 2019-12-05T04:59:29+00:00

Really gotta feel bad for them, but at the same time they make it easier for us.

I think for the younger guys it's all social media. Girls use it as a way to raise their pedestal. Guys drool and bow down to these fucking Instagram models and e-thots. 5's look like 8's with the right filters and pose. These dudes don't approach chicks because they see themselves below them from the get-go. Their social skills are crippled, and its only going to get worse.

Dating apps are swamped with guys and it's again, become another validation tool for these girls.

Those same guys will unfortunately enter manipulative, controlling relationships with a girl that is 3 points below them because they fail to see their own worth, and that low self-esteem drives away any chance of improving their personal fitness, passions and goals.

I exagerrate a bit for conversational purposes, but that's just how it sits in my mind.

smgtn · 2019-12-05T07:50:31+00:00

It's not all black and white. I know some high SMV dudes (30s and older) who opt out from dating sometimes apart from occasional ONS. I've done that myself for years at a time. Those who never tried it don't realize how much fucking time women consume.

flyinghorse1 · 2019-12-05T06:33:26+00:00

I actually quit dating and sleeping around. My whole 20s I ran around with women and had a new woman on average every month. I look back now and I regret the amount of time, money, and effort I put in. I wish I followed my goals more.

For now, i'm very happy taking a few years away from women and focusing on my ambitions. Once i'm there and I succeed I will consider wasting time on flings again

Casd12 · 2019-12-05T04:39:51+00:00

He thinks he's given up. But his biological needs will break him. Hold your breath long enough and eventually you'll gasp for air

Cyntack · 2019-12-05T04:39:11+00:00

Link?

czsthrowaway · 2019-12-05T05:40:34+00:00

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Standgrounding · 2019-12-05T08:12:01+00:00

I did. Written by blue dude turning black

salinorum · 2019-12-05T05:00:32+00:00

I think a life without pussy is respectable if it’s about retaining your semen, if it’s about asceticism. Think it’s pathetic if you’re hiding out in your house jacking off all day long and playing video games.

[deleted] · 2019-12-05T06:11:31+00:00

I saw it. Shit was depressing and makes me glad I'm not one of them. Reminds me of a buddy of mine who said that if he were to ever split up with his girlfriend, he'd stay single the rest of his life. No way I could stand a life without pussy, but to each their own I guess

TBtgoat · 2019-12-05T06:48:47+00:00

I read a post a couple weeks back on the main sub. It talked about how we Rpers have zero excuse to not win in this game and zero reason to feel bad for ourselves. The author used the word “map.” He said we have the map to the treasure.

I know I’m thankful for stumbling upon here

cilantromakesmepuke · 2019-12-05T11:34:47+00:00

throw in the towel and accept a life without pussy

Some of us are just tired to spend so much of our energy hunting dumb gazelles, and prefer to buy meat from the supermarket. Time and energy can be spent in more interesting ways.

To each their own.

deleteriousAnimal · 2019-12-05T06:52:38+00:00

I'm that. I have accepted life without pussy because it's too much effort and I don't want to spend money on them. Now that you've pointed it out, I feel like shit

[deleted] · 2019-12-05T05:06:31+00:00

Sucks to suck, more for me lol.

Fromstatepharm · 2019-12-05T05:26:07+00:00

Isn’t this just mgtow

redhawkes · 2019-12-05T11:41:49+00:00

Who gives a fuck

[deleted] · 2019-12-05T14:53:04+00:00

AskMen hit that "top trending subs" list earlier in the week.

I have no knowledge of the quality of the sub prior to that happening, but I imagine it's about to hit rock bottom.

beachbbqlover · 2019-12-05T15:09:02+00:00

I'm attracted to a certain thing, and if it doesn't exist, I'm not in it.

Thing is, the majority of women in the US have decided to let themselves go both physically and mentally. They're raging, entitled hippopotapii with tattoos and blue hair.

If all girls turn themselves into literal pigs, well, I'm no pig-fucker.

catsdontsmile · 2019-12-05T15:24:37+00:00

I think the highest benefit of a LTR is that you don't have to waste time chasing tail that you could instead use in work or creative endeavors. Personally, I don't have any problem getting pussy, but just having to go out for drinks with someone I don't give a shit about is like ugh I rather jerk off and spend my time in something else or pursuing my life goals. Also by not going out in dates you have a lot of extra cash to either invest or burn in hobbies.

Truedemocracy5 · 2019-12-05T16:23:43+00:00

The average person on that sub is no more a man than my crippled grandmother. Live by the soy die by the soy

Don_Draper27 · 2019-12-05T16:25:21+00:00

If you try this before having a good run of spinning plates or going through LTR's then it's going to do nothing for you because you're still going to be thinking about girls all day.

It's a huge investment when you align your life to being successful with plate spinning. I admit it's fucking awesome. Having the power to next girls when they cross your boundary and being able to just text the next one is quite an experience.

After a while though it feels repetitive and you begin to realize that you're missing out on other pleasures in life.

Bluedog5x5 · 2019-12-05T05:51:17+00:00

Nah don’t read that shut blood, makes you soygirly boy.

terpaway2200 · 2019-12-05T14:36:33+00:00

How is this personal question?

Title	Anyone catch the post on ask men today about guys giving up on girls?
Author	drevil_
Upvotes	53
Comments	49
Date	December 5, 2019 4:33 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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