Where are the succesful stories of me who got out of RedPill/BlackPill mindset? I can't find any in this sub

oree94 · 2019-12-16T09:56:10+00:00

This is a support sub, which means people come here mostly to vent. Go to r/exchristian for example. Most people talk about how detrimental christianity was for them. I would imagine people who eventually feel like they've vented and healed enough have no reason to come back to any ex-blahblah communities.

bluescrew · 2019-12-16T14:08:42+00:00

I see lots of those stories in the comments of this sub, just not as OPs.

cakefmateus · 2019-12-16T12:08:05+00:00

As said by oree this is a support sub, and don't get yourself too caught up in Red Pill successful stories too my man. Most of what you see there is one sided and you can't know for sure if the person on the other side is telling the truth or being 100% sincere in his story.

Think like this: The Redpill sub is a place where men gather themselves to talk about women and show how successful they are, do you really think people don't lie there? When I left the sub most of the advice there were not useful, most of it were from people who just read the sidebar, never applied the learnings and thought that they were good enough to give advice based on "I read a lot". I came from a PUA community and it was the same thing, guys reading Mystery Method and thinking they were in a good position to give advice and a lot of guys lying about Field Reports just to get reputation.

In the end you need to see things for YOURSELF, even if this sub had successful stories, can you REALLY believe in them? Can you REALLY believe in the TRP sub stories? TRP is a cult, this I can tell you by proof, you can SEE by what is wrote there. Don't let successful stories blind you, they can and most often are deceiving

LordFancyPants_VII · 2019-12-18T23:42:51+00:00

It's because waking up one day to realize your a Nazi isn't a success story. Our "success stories" are more like "why did we do this in the first place" rather than the "sticking it to the man" thing that you usually hear about when it comes to cults like this

NamelessJ · 2019-12-16T19:53:51+00:00

I recognize that the pill mindset is bullshit a while back and I am "successful" with dating. I am not sure exactly what you mean by success, but I'm a happy guy who dates and forms connections with women regularly. I've done the player lifestyle and there was once a time when I thought RP was right in some of its theories, but the truth is that it makes things worse in dating for the most part. I think RP is kinda like a guy who decides to go on a diet and exercise but gets some really bad advice, and ends up losing a little weight because he's doing something better than nothing, but ends up stalling out and eventually getting worse because the original advice was not sound. RP might convince someone to at least get out of their house and have some success, but if the ideology is truly embraced he'll really mess himself up emotionally and be worse off than if he'd never heard of RP. There's lots of good information in the world about how to actually be attractive to women and be a seductive person, but RP is for neurotics and suckers.

TheBlackPillFuckedMe · 2019-12-16T16:36:09+00:00

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PithyApollo · 2019-12-16T17:04:59+00:00

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assfgkigfdhjo · 2019-12-27T17:30:21+00:00

Redpill materials helped me a lot. I went from virgin to player but I took it too far. I have more empathy for women now. Being in a serious relationship with someone I care about changed my views. I still think there is a lot of truth to redpill though and it can be a positive influence if used correctly

frappuccinoCoin · 2019-12-16T12:27:57+00:00

This is what keeps me redpilled.

I have a lot of empathy for all humans, but I can't succeed with women without applying the redpill religiously. Examples:

Was in a low point in my life and teared up once in front of my LTR, she instantly started to lose attraction from that point.
I loved this other LTR, never told her that I loved her - no matter how hard she tried to suss it out. She was thirsty for any drop of validation & affection from me. Once she said I was too cold with her, I agreed and told/showed her how much I feel for her, her love fizzled so fast I couldn't believe how black and white it was.

I feel bad/guilty applying the redpill, but I don't see long-term success in a relationship without it.

wolfthewoman · 2019-12-17T02:02:17+00:00

What do you consider success? Going to Poland and being able to fuck hot women? This sub isn't about dating success. Its about unbrainwashing success. There are tons of men here who have given positive testimonials of leaving the red pill behind, getting in a healthier frame of mind, and starting to see women as humans again. If you're looking for dating success testimonials you may be in the wrong sub.

Rad1Red · 2019-12-17T18:39:29+00:00

What's a "success story" to you, then?

PithyApollo · 2019-12-16T15:54:07+00:00

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Title	Where are the succesful stories of me who got out of RedPill/BlackPill mindset? I can't find any in this sub
Author	TheBlackPillFuckedMe
Upvotes	13
Comments	63
Date	December 16, 2019 9:09 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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