"You can't love a woman more than she loves herself"

jb_trp · 2015-03-30T17:25:05+00:00

She doesn't fall in love with any man; she falls in love with the feelings that she gets when she is with the man.

Even Chad Thundercock is easily replacable

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-03-30T18:44:31+00:00

Men love women, women love children, children love puppies.

The woman that actually understands this has Game and Charms the highest SMV man she can lock down into commitment. If she wins she gets the top 20% Alpha. Babies follow.

The stupid woman doesn't know up from down and rides the Cock Carousel until she hits the Wall and gets spit out. She's the loser. House will eventually fill with cats.

Betas are like stupid women in that they don't understand how things work. The Betas remain as children and since women only get Tingles for men ABOVE them the Betas are seen as about as exciting as a six year old boy.

Moral of the story:

Know the natural heirarchy. (both male and female must know it)

trowawayyada · 2015-03-30T21:04:43+00:00

A response I received just yesterday from a woman who replied to me about a comment regarding single mothers, and how you (a man dating her) will never be the highest priority in her life.

This woman replied saying that this still holds true even when the father is still with the mother and that it's 'beautiful'. So there you go, straight from the horse's moth... She will never love you more than she loves herself and certainly not more (and probably not nearly as much as) she loves her kids once she gets one out of you.

1MillionTinyHorses · 2015-03-30T21:30:46+00:00

People like to have their self esteem, or lack there of, validated to aline with there sense of reality, whether subconscious or not. They take what they think they deserve. All one has to due is find out what this is if they wish to obtain anything from that person. This is Mirroring 101.

You can see the effects of this principle everywhere; the genius who works as a custodian, the gorgeous woman who pairs herself with an out of shape unemployed looser, or your obese friend who boasts about their latest diet trend that they can never stick to. Their actions match that of their internal value. All of these people take what they think they deserve. They strive to place themselves in the hierarchy were they think they fit.

This is why healthy childrearing is so crucial. If the child never learns to be valued from its parents, then they will establish a poor habit of low self worth as humans are creatures of habit, likewise; over valuing of the child can create dissonance within the child.

Shadowmat · 2015-03-30T17:32:58+00:00

Even before having a presence on TRP I realized:

"In order to get a woman, always treat her the way she treats herself. If you over evluate her value, she'll see you as less of a man by thinking your instincts are off"

DrXaos · 2015-03-30T21:39:06+00:00

| While beta is putting all of the work in, because he views her more highly than she views herself, she will subconsciously recognizes these inconsistencies and will eventually seek out Alpha dick again.

"Recognizes inconsitencies" is a euphemism.

Subconscious BIOS: "My dirty thoughts mean I'm a scum. But this guy treats me nice. WTF? He must be a pathetic loser! Ha ha! Who wants to fuck a twerp like that? He deserves my bitchy."

coffee_and_lumber · 2015-03-30T19:10:35+00:00

There are a lot of attractive women out there with little to no self-respect.

Definitely something to always keep in mind. I know a good handful of seriously hot women who have very little value to offer beyond their body. Their obvious low levels of self-esteem seem to show that they understand this. Oh, you're a low-level esthetician (or doggie day care worker or "model" or whatever else doesn't require much education) with no hobbies other than shopping, clubbing and posting selfies on Facebook? We're going to have some great times.

Of course, if you're just innit for right now, you can exploit all this with much benefit.

MentORPHEUS · 2015-03-30T22:04:45+00:00

I once had a GF who was very intelligent, had a PhD and was a college professor. She used to be fat, but when I met her she was in excellent shape after years of very dedicated gym attendance. However, her self-esteem was still in the toilet; she did NOT take compliments well, and even made a loud scoffing noise in response more than once. The look of disgust for me was almost shockingly intense; I didn't believe a human could harbor such self-loathing at the time. That relationship lasted only a few short months.

[deleted] · 2015-03-30T19:07:35+00:00

All we aim to do in life is keep ourselves entertained while we deal with the agony of just BEING ALIVE.

This is why people set goals. So they have something to do. Pretty much everything we do is just something to do while we wither away and die.

With that in mind, why would anyone want to spend time with someone who is boring and easily obtainable. If this is the case, there are no "relationship goals" for women to set, where their SO shows them crazy amounts of affection proving her self worth. Obviously in the end of he does this she loses interest because that's boring but the grass is greener and all that.

Saying she treated the alpha/betas a certain way because they treated her like garbage is untrue, it all boils down to the fact that women want to have fun. Hell everyone wants to have fun, but women have the privelege of being able to have fun with little or no consequence.

Just don't be boring.

tits_out_forTheBoys · 2015-03-31T16:03:56+00:00

"The girl who tells you she needs to be comfortable and wants a relationship first is the same girl who fucked the hot guy in the foam cannon party in Cancun on spring break just half an hour after meeting him."

-Rollo Tomassi

exit_sandman · 2015-03-31T07:42:19+00:00

I agree, only one nitpick: the title should be "you shouldn't" or "you mustn't", because the way it is, it's misleading - my first interpretation was that it's impossible to love a woman more than she loves herself (being entitled and solipsistic and all that), not that it's not recommendable to do so.

iluminatiNYC · 2015-03-30T19:33:35+00:00

Word. Any woman who doesn't give a fuck about herself REALLY doesn't give a fuck about anyone else. Also, remember that the most dangerous woman is the one with nothing to lose. If she thinks nothing of her life, why should she care about you again?

thenarrrowpath · 2015-03-30T21:52:19+00:00

This must be some kind of saying because I heard that exact phrase from an audience member on one of Owens (RDS) seminars.

zephyrprime · 2015-03-31T14:51:43+00:00

This is really interesting because just the other week, I was talking to a girl in a group setting and she told me that hated herself. I was really surprised because she seemed very sensible and level headed. On the one hand, I didn't know what to make of it but on the other hand I wasn't entirely surprised because it sorta made sense that women would hate themselves because of the insecurities and deficient self of esteem they all seem to have.

zephyrprime · 2015-03-31T14:57:33+00:00

"they treated her lower than she views herself" - correction - "they treated her as low as she views herself"

bm2l · 2015-03-31T20:04:15+00:00

I can't love a woman period, lol

ErasmusOrgasmus · 2015-04-02T13:59:16+00:00

This may have already been said in the comments but amused mastery fits in well here. To newbies it can be a difficult concept to grasp or to actually apply in real life interactions - I know it was for me initially.

But I had something of an epiphany moment with respect to amused mastery when a woman I considered significantly less attractive than me (albeit still fuckable) approached me. The key factors of the interaction besides her attractiveness were my drunkenness and the fact that she approached me. After she approached I quickly reached the conclusion that I was way out of her league, that I was much better than her. So I teased her for the first 5 minutes of the conversation and lo and behold, she lapped it up. Being drunk and enjoying myself, I continued.

I teased her ruthlessly and relentlessly for about half an hour. She became incredibly outwardly frustrated with me but I could see that her attraction was growing. Why? Because I did not give a single shit whatsoever. People say they don't give a fuck all the time but it is rarely true - this time it honestly was. I didn't give a fuck because I knew I was better than her and this produced more amused mastery than I knew what to do with.

On the point of men being simply 'better' than women I would recommend Patrice O'Neal because I'm not going to expand on it now. But the point is, amused mastery will come naturally to you when you realise that you are better than the women you are talking to. To make that happen, just keep improving and increasing your value.

mickydonavan417 · 2015-03-31T00:02:25+00:00

like snoop said in 94' we dont love these hoes.

stringerbell · 2015-03-30T23:53:50+00:00

You can't love a human more than they love themselves.

Fixed that for you ('cause it sure seems like everyday around here someone's posting a universal truth about humanity and pretending that only women do it)

Title	"You can't love a woman more than she loves herself"
Author	waitfor_ittt
Upvotes	158
Comments	89
Date	March 30, 2015 5:18 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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