How to hold frame for one word texters?

JP_Whoregan · 2015-04-02T01:10:32+00:00

It's because she's replying to you and 100 other thirsty men just like you.

Even though it's unpopular on this sub, I'm of the opinion that online dating is like shopping for a movie in that big "clearance bin" at WalMart; the one where a bunch of clearance DVDs are literally "dumped" into a big massive box. Even if you find a movie you kind of wanna watch, at $5 it's still overpriced, and probably not worth the digging you had to do to find it.

But if you must online date, I just go radio silence on these girls and move on. Your taco opener is far too long and far too invested, and she knows it. You're a dancing clown to her. And she'll never ask you to come dance in person when you're dancing like a clown over OK Cupid.

One word texters? Next. Radio silence. I've gone radio silence on some OKC girls and you'd be shocked at how many will re-open you. That's when you neg her for being a dull bore.

Side note: these "one word texters" are often girls who literally have no profile and just pictures of herself. Avoid these girls, don't waste your time. No profile filled out means they are literally just looking for validation orbiters telling her how pretty she is. It's just another IG or FB to her.

monsieurhire2 · 2015-04-02T02:01:42+00:00

Uh, back to reality: you text her about a complete non-event in your life, one step up from taking a shit, she gives you a generic reply out of politeness, and then you blow up at her making yourself appear a bit foolish.

Holding frame is a matter of impulse control. If you're getting an impulse to act, chances are, you should refrain. Less is more with women. You need to read the sidebar more.

DocRedPill · 2015-04-02T02:08:55+00:00

"I got up and made tacos" and you tell her to stop being boring. Your humor is that of the of the faggot quirky redditor bullshit.

Stop it. She doesn't want the quirky bullshit you get from /r/animals. She wants a man, not a faggot.

GeminiCrickets · 2015-04-02T08:59:21+00:00

Updating a girl about random shit in your life reeks of desperation. Also your texts should ALWAYS be shorter than hers. Brevity is the soul of wit. Short, sweet, to the point and a bit vague and illusive.

Object of the game is to make her chase you, something women love to do since they don't get to do it often. Reclining back and letting women clamor for your attention is alpha; you're just another thirsty beta if you send her stories. Make it clear (through how you text and speak to her; implicit not explicit) to her she has to prove to you she's worthy of your time and attention.

I hope to fuck you're not doing smiley or winking faces either.

robo23 · 2015-04-02T08:37:20+00:00

She isn't interested in you dude. Naps and tacos? Real panty peelers there...

rkg-pua · Thu Apr 2 4:27:58 2015 UTC

Lurk for 6 more months. Stop posting.

Your text made me literally cringe.

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laere · 2015-04-02T01:01:50+00:00

If you ever have a question in regards to TRP, post it on /r/AskTRP

Anyways, stop having conversations over text. Use texting for logistics.

Also "losing your shit" is losing frame. Read the sidebar.

ThePedanticF0x · 2015-04-02T07:59:22+00:00

If I didn't know any better, I would assume you internalized your personal form of humour from cat posters. Tacos are not the most interesting of topics to discuss in that it is not likely to intrigue.

Be bold, un-apologetic and outcome independent. I recommend the unhinged text game tactics of Beastlife from the Black Knight Coalition, he has a counter intuitive approach which is quite effective.

You simply bored her, remember that girls like her probably has 10 to 25 jesters entertaining her at any one time. She will settle for the few who most intrigue, you're just another sub par jester to her.

furpwt · 2015-04-02T11:55:39+00:00

You're making some of the most basic mistakes of all. Women want an alpha, who is sought by other women, and is so busy dominating at life that he hardly even has time for any of them.

Once she sees you like this, she actually wants to prove herself to you. You then need to act disinterested which piques her interest further because it shows how unfazed you are by a little of her attention (i.e. "holding frame"). You're showing her that you're valuable (or "from a place of abundance").

You've been doing the opposite. Do you keep every woman you know constantly updated about your naps and eating habits? No, obviously not. You're treating her as the princess you aspire to, which is the single biggest turnoff for a girl. You're basically shouting to her that you're a lower SMV, which she's biologically hard-wired to find unappealing.

PookIsLovePookIsLife · 2015-04-02T01:25:00+00:00

Use texting to initiate a meet up and save the conversation for in person.

tif2shuz · 2015-04-02T08:02:13+00:00

If someone wrote me "quit that, stop being boring" I'd think you were a jack ass and I'd stop talking to you immediately.

raiseurT · 2015-04-02T05:00:47+00:00

Just don't reply, this is what i do 100% of the time to girls who are one word texting me. It's frustrating and i probably missed out on some opportunities, but i maintained my frame, which is more important in the long run.

Dark397 · 2015-04-02T11:15:42+00:00

Give more time b/w messages. Message and chat with 5 other girls before you msg her again. Hell even sign off "busy gotta run" click off...msg after 2 days. Be interesting, then poof gone for 2 days.

foldpak111 · 2015-04-02T05:43:29+00:00

You sound needy in your replies.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-04-02T01:12:06+00:00

Don't lose your shit.

You shouldn't lose your shit because of a girl(ever), but when that happens, accept it and channel that energy into witty texts.

The Guiness World Book just called...they think you just broke the record for the most-engaged-texter-ever. The ceremony is tomorrow evening at my place.

Title	How to hold frame for one word texters?
Author	shuritsen
Upvotes	2
Comments	33
Date	April 2, 2015 12:56 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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