I suspect my wife is cheating on me, how do i find out if she does?

Zeplikes · 2020-01-16T22:42:06+00:00

Honestly man, if you are wondering and she is deleting chats with other guys you should be pretty sure about it already. Trust your gut. But gather evidence if you can because married..

PhaedrusHunt · 2020-01-17T01:41:25+00:00

Quick hack if you want to track her movements.

Buy a burner phone, turn your Google maps history on, and just stash that shit in her car somewhere.

If you want to get super fancy there are ways to actually connect it to the battery so that it's stays plugged in.

battlebrothercain · 2020-01-16T23:59:16+00:00

Don't confront her, don't hint that you're suspecting because she'll cover up her trails. Hire a private investigator, gather hard evidence, and file for divorce or whatever you want to do

IXseed · 2020-01-16T22:26:11+00:00

Prepare your exit strategy.

Even if she isn't the fact that you even have a hunch that she is should be alarms you need to eject

svenfromaccounting · 2020-01-16T22:08:51+00:00

https://www.raymond.cc/blog/free-and-simple-keylogger-to-monitor-keystrokes-in-windows/

Alpha_Fucks · 2020-01-16T22:25:28+00:00

Head over to askmrp. Read the rules and post. They won't be gentle but you will get solid answers.

Fromstatepharm · 2020-01-16T22:38:01+00:00

She is. And if she’s not she thinking about it

Terdmuffin · 2020-01-16T22:12:37+00:00

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swedishbull90 · 2020-01-17T12:20:51+00:00

Personal experience.

any behaviour that is sudden , out of the blue that would seem..." out of character "
if she doesnt do self care all that often ie: nails hair exc exc and suddenly starts.
this is a bitch move but if you want to cross this line , take the guys you know that she knows on a regular basis , then look for other men that are recent that have been commenting liking exc within the time frame of the attitude " change "
increase or lack thereof libido
increase in personal demands ie : you dont go to the gym , you dont take me anywere , blah blah
extensive phone use or none at all when your around
blatantly ask her straight out man. And then watch the eyes and laugh haha useually this does it.
if shes at home while your at work text her about what shes doing blah blah , go home sick from work randomly and just show up at home , ask to use her phone to call a doc office as your phone is dead. Then just watch man. Lol if theres anything there youll find it.

volvostupidshit · 2020-01-17T08:10:36+00:00

Try to install file recovery apps on her phone if you really want to know. RIP to your marriage in advance bro.

zboo1h · 2020-01-17T19:32:02+00:00

Where there is doubt, there is no doubt.

2020-01-16T23:03:26+00:00

If another man sends your wife a message on any format other than a text message it’s a huge red flag. If they aren’t trying to be discreet why not just text her?

falcorn223 · 2020-01-16T23:02:20+00:00

This is why a lot of red pill dating coaches tell you to make her delete her social media accounts way before marriage.

JustGoogleItBoy · 2020-01-17T06:15:00+00:00

People who say “be a man and tell her” clearly don’t know how bad divorce is for men, financially. If you have some money, hire a lawyer and private investigator. If you don’t have, make some money or borrow some. Just don’t get divorced without hard evidence that she is the one to blame.

halleluiaiaia9292 · 2020-01-16T22:22:30+00:00

Why dont you just confront her? Who cares that you were snooping

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-01-17T01:07:54+00:00

Dude... WTF.

A. Why the fuck do you care. If she cheats, she goes.

B. You're a grown ass man. Just fucking ask her about it. Then use your brain to decide if she's lying to you. If she is deal with it.

Either way snooping around is a faggot thing to do. You should have more important shit to do with your time then check up on another adult. If she cheats, who cares. There are 3.5 billion other women in the world.

LeChumScrubber · 2020-01-17T03:04:05+00:00

don't get married

affirmative

wowkwo · 2020-01-16T22:44:31+00:00

Bigger issues to address than the specific message, figure that out!

Title	I suspect my wife is cheating on me, how do i find out if she does?
Author	kecmatematika
Upvotes	20
Comments	67
Date	January 16, 2020 9:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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