Don’t explain yourselves. It only gives them ammunition. JUST BLOCK AND DELETE. (Context in comments)

AyemHerself · 2020-12-07T14:49:18+00:00

Notice that saying no to him is "misandry." Men do love to throw around that word like it means something.

cremebruleecakes · 2020-12-07T15:08:33+00:00

It's always the "Hope you get your shit sorted/together" line that pisses me off. Projection much?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-12-07T16:27:20+00:00

Notice he pops right out with the fake "misandry" whiney internet loser bullshit 🚩🚨❗❌

late4church_ · 2020-12-07T12:33:45+00:00

There was a 35(!!!) y.o child who asked me to coffee on a day he would be in my area already visiting his family. I said I didn’t want to go on a date with a man that makes me a detour, nor am I into coffee dates but that I would prefer a lunch or dinner date with someone that’s more sure about meeting me. (I once had a man that owned his own law firm in London – a massive city with many options fly to my COUNTRY for lunch, bring me a gift, pay for lunch and then fly back after the date ended. I don’t lower this realization – and now standard that a man’s time, effort or resources in his pursuit of me is required).

This then was rebutted with a “meet me in the middle offer” with that he will take me for alcoholic beverages, during his same “family travel trip”. I declined, again, and I AGAIN (🤡) explained I preferred the traditional approach. He THEN decided to bring himself up to my standards to which he responded on Whatsapp (in photo). I had enough of it all (my response in photo) and blocked him.

Then he does a 180° and decided to text me this trash once he realized he was blocked on Whatsapp. His response to my standards of me communicating who and how I want to date is absolute filth and I let him know how serious I was taking his relentless communication.

I learned my lesson which is communicated by our other beautiful FDS members continuously:

Have your standards and stick with them ✔️
Don’t complain or explain them.

If you know yourself it’s not a match and you haven’t even met, you don’t owe it to scrotes to explain why. You owe them nothing. Just block and delete. Block everywhere. If you haven’t met, just straight up GHOST. Otherwise you could very well end up with this reaction .. or worse.

Milobear27 · 2020-12-07T18:18:25+00:00

What a loon.

chateauduchat · 2020-12-07T18:45:07+00:00

What a queen move. Put those dusties back in the dirt sis!!!

fairywakes · 2020-12-09T05:00:26+00:00

The entitlement!

Title	Don’t explain yourselves. It only gives them ammunition. JUST BLOCK AND DELETE. (Context in comments)
Author	late4church_
Upvotes	226
Comments	10
Date	December 7, 2020 12:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k8ft0f/dont_explain_yourselves_it_only_gives_them/
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