I’ve been in a long term relationship with the most amazing partner. Were married and had our first child and I’m a SAHM. He helps me around the house, hired cleaners so I don’t have to worry about chores, is extremely attentive to the baby, encourages me to get extra sleep, mani pedis, any thing I want. I am so happy to have him and my baby in my life.

But when it comes to other mom friends I am so so lonely. Even mom groups on reddit are for “other” moms and not me (I recently got banned from a certain mom group on Reddit because I have posted in a sub they found uninclusive - a year ago. and without any context they banned me and muted me from replying to explain).

I try so hard with the moms in my real life but I get comments like “but you wouldn’t understand” (when they’re complaining about finances, husbands back at work - my husband has a lot of free time and is able to help a lot) and it’s gotten to the point where I pretend my life is worse off so they’ll still keep me around. I never ever talk finances or try to brag in anyway but my husbands work makes it obvious that we’re not struggling and I really feel like it makes people see me differently.

Or maybe I really suck and people don’t want me around for that reason. I don’t know any more man..

Im hormonal and lonely and wish I had some mom friends. Is it me?!