Can an average in his 30s guy date women in their 20s? Yes. Will the question it trigger post-wall women past their prime? Also, yes.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2019-01-26T15:06:57+00:00

I used to always be the guy who said "men should date women their own age!" Then I grew up and realized why older men go for younger women: because all men are expected to fulfill a pseudo-father role in her life. You pay for her stuff, keep her entertained, protect her physically, and tolerate her temper tantrums.

XteveMcQueen · 2019-01-26T15:52:47+00:00

I’m 56. On occasion I’ll “date”. These women are never over 30. I see jealously on some men’s faces when we enter a restaurant but the pure venomous scowls come at me like lasers from 40+ year old women. Even my sister gives me an acrid look when she sees me with them.

I don’t date much these days but I almost want to just for the reactions.

brazil84 · 2019-01-26T16:19:49+00:00

It's funny how much everyone freaks out about middle aged men being attracted to girls in their 20s. I didn't really notice this or pay much attention to it as a young man, but now that I'm in my 40s, people seem to think I'm some kind of inhuman monster for being attracted to girls in their 20s.

It's true that young women are a bit better than middle-aged women in terms of personality, but I think this has more to do with the fact that middle aged women tend to get depressed and bitter over their loss of sexual marketplace value.

Westernhagen · 2019-01-26T16:47:10+00:00

If you think women get triggered at the idea of a guy of 35 dating women in their early 20s, you should see what happens when you mention a guy of 45 or 55 dating younger women. Incandescent fury!

One common reaction from older women is, "it's not real love, she's just after your money!" Never mind that ALL women, of all ages, are trying to drain you of resources. If you gotta pay anyway, might as well pay for younger hotter tighter!

where_muh_good_mens · 2019-01-26T15:01:52+00:00

Well there is some honesty in the comments. I thought it was interesting they admitted age doesn't matter on a guy, it isn't something they think about just that they find them attracted. I'll admit as a guy age is the first thing I think about if she is over 30. If she is younger it's the second thing I think about after the spring of her tits and the cushion I could be a pushin.

oirectine00 · 2019-01-26T15:48:51+00:00

Tell 20 year old women to stop dating 30 year old men then.

Alright_Boah · 2019-01-26T15:27:43+00:00

LMAO im 36 and my gf is 22. She's also in law school and more mature than I am though, so there's that.

edit: and im not fit, pretty skinny.

usa_foot_print · 2019-01-26T16:59:31+00:00

Lmao the woman about “if you struggle at 23 then you will struggle in your 30s” is such a joke. I struggled early 20s and found one amazing woman; my now wife. However, in the last 3 years and onward I keep attracting a ton of woman between 21 to 40 easily. If I go to the bar with my wedding ring on without my wife but with some of my friends I get chicks that talk to me and come up to me a lot. This woman is delusional.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2019-01-26T17:41:22+00:00

If women our age were interesting, I'd date them. But they are generally wore down, single mothers, broke, needy and demanding. And many aren't even good at bed. So, it is a very practical matter.

0ToTheLeft · 2019-01-26T16:03:03+00:00

i posted my comment in that thread a couple hours ago, i imagined that the thread was going to end up here.

The top comment is the clear reflection of post-carrousel women in their 30's. They wasted their prime riding the carrousel and now they get angry when men with SMV ignore them and focus on younger women

BertTheWelder · 2019-01-26T17:48:28+00:00

The only reason to date a woman over...I’ll be generous and say 35...is because you can’t land a younger one. Not only do women almost universally look worse, but they, strangely, become more demanding and entitled. Hard pass.

LotBuilder · 2019-01-26T19:26:24+00:00

Guys in their 20’s these days are pretty weak competition. The vast majority are broke video game and porn addicts that smoke way too much weed. It doesn’t take much to look great in comparison. I’m 40 and date girls in their early/ mid 20’s. Usually fresh out of a LTR with some deadbeat so they are looking for the opposite. These girls are probably 7’s in their age but they look like 10’s compared to my ex and the women my friends are married to and dating.

I do really like the hateful looks I get from groups of 40’ish divorcees when they see me with my lady friends. I also like watching the wives freak out when I bring a 24 year old hardbody to a bbq or birthday party... and you see the lightbulb go off in a few guys heads that they could easily upgrade if their wife doesn’t straiten up.

DontBeAStupidCunt · 2019-01-26T15:59:12+00:00

Gonna play devil’s advocate here and say I’m cringing for both sides. Half the folks I see in my college gym are facially-unaesthetic (mostly Asian) dudes who all they know how to do is follow a curriculum. E.g. parents told them all their lives to study hard and it’ll result in a wife. We all know how bogus that is these days as only tingles matter and beta bux is the end result for post-wall thots. No prime age chicks for beta bux. That’s reserved for Chad. These poor guys think life is like a video game with quests and rewards where Go To Gym is rewarded with Get Chicks but they don’t realize the gym doesn’t fix your bad, boring nice guyTM personality, as described in the recent lawsuit where Harvard was discriminating against Asian applicants because they were found to be “well-studious, but uninteresting”, or your unfortunate face or 5 foot something inches height.

Xemnas81 · 2019-01-26T16:09:44+00:00

Myth of the lonely old man...I mean, not a myth, but a shaming tactic all the same.

MadeInBeirut13 · 2019-01-26T17:20:15+00:00

I dont date women over 25 anymore, I dont care that im getting older. This has become a "hard pass" rule for me

alphabachelor · 2019-01-26T19:39:18+00:00

I enjoyed the exchange where one hen clucked that it is definitely possible as all the men her age now chase after twenty year olds and OP called her out asking didn’t she do the same thing at that age.

She answered yes. Funny how tables turn.

SilverGryphon · 2019-01-26T17:20:30+00:00

Typical feminist bullshit in that post's comment section.

FunkyCannaHigh · 2019-01-26T22:40:49+00:00

I won't have an FWB with any woman over 25, just not worth it. Women in their thirties are spiteful, angry and just have all the fun/life sucked out of them. Think I am a liar? Go over to the "dating over thirty" sub. Every woman in her 30's bitch about men in their thirties. The most often used phrase is "there is a reason a guy isn't married and has kids in his thirties."

Yes, she is exactly right! I am not ready to settle down! I have money, my own place, a car, a motorcycle and I can come/go anytime I please. Why would I settle for a woman past her prime that is just miserable about life when I can date a fun, outgoing twenty something? Want to go to Vegas EDC? Sure! Your twenty something girlfriend/FWB will go but not your thirty year old woman.

I am in my mid thirties and I am in a FWB with an early twenty-something female. I have a great job and work out 6-7 days a week. It is not hard for a decent looking, mid thirties guy who stays in great shape to find a 20 year old woman who is not looking to be tied down. You just have to be happy with life and be a fun guy.

[deleted] · 2019-01-26T23:05:51+00:00

I am forever amazed at the amount of women who're, say, twenty-seven on online dating and they'll rule out a candidate born a year after them but will often go ten or fifteen years older without any hesitation.

thearmchairwarrior · 2019-01-26T16:59:31+00:00

I honestly think men shouldn't be bother with so called dating till they are in their 30's and get their money and job/life together.

and they should only date girls younger than 25 once they start to date. The ones past 25 are left over women who are utterly useless to men.

fourthwallmotionless · 2019-01-26T17:49:15+00:00

Shit I'm in my late 30s and I still fuck with -23 year olds. Anything over 26 seems like way too old me or a human equivalent of a used car tires... AKA she's been around the block a few times

sleepyweaselisawake · 2019-01-27T17:48:43+00:00

Wyhmyn: „Men should date only women their own age! A mature 35 y/o woman is better than a 20 y/o stupid young bitch!” Men: „So why women like you didn’t want to date men their own age when they were 20?” Wyhmyn: „... ehm... Past is the past! You’re a misogynist and incel! Who hurt you?!”

loneliness-inc · 2019-01-27T01:22:46+00:00

This guy is either simply clueless or simply a genius at trolling!

Either way, it's like a cat that entered into the chicken coup!

The__Froth · 2019-01-26T16:50:22+00:00

Perversion: The comment section.

ContradictFate · 2019-01-27T03:47:41+00:00

The first answer is no. Hell, no. SMV uptick in men is such a landmine of horseshit. Use it only as a psychological placebo but if you truly believe it, fucking shame, we'll miss you.

There was such a perfect answer by a woman that said if one is having trouble attracting women at 23 then it will be no different at 30. Then this autistic retard spurted out "That is bullshit!"

"Blah, blah, blah, you'll have more resources, blah, blah."

In non Blue-pilled speak, that means that women will find you attractive and use you only because you have money.. I'm sorry, SMV rise is such a bunch of shit. This myth was pushed out prior to the app/hedonism/I'll show my tits on cam and get $ and drooling simps dopaminerushdopaminerushdopaminerush ground being wet. We see the fault in this thinking and it's a foolish thing to yearn for. That date never comes. Free yourself now and better yourself.

Crusader199 · 2019-02-17T18:35:51+00:00

I hate everyone in that thread equally and they all deserve suffering.

Title	Can an average in his 30s guy date women in their 20s? Yes. Will the question it trigger post-wall women past their prime? Also, yes.
Author	sleepyweaselisawake
Upvotes	299
Comments	113
Date	January 26, 2019 2:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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