Link: https://archive.is/hxAue

From the post:

Last Friday, I went to a bar with a man I met on Match, and we both got drunk, especially him.We held hands and kissed on the sidewalk. He poured a lot of flattery on me, and it made me feel really good. I felt wanted. But he started saying things like "I love you. We were meant to be together.

He hit me on the butt, putting his hand in between my crack too much, and I said "quit it!" He did it two more times anyway. The next day, I reported it to police, and they told me that when someone touches your ass against your will, it's "unlawful sexual contact", which is a misdemeanor. They investigated, and today I was told they are not pressing charges because they don't think they can get a conviction. There is no video of him hitting my butt. In an email exchange with the guy the day after the date, though, I brought up the butt hitting, and he apologized, but later said he couldn't remember it. I guess that email wasn't enough for police.

So the guy was a total creep she considered pressing charges for touching her butt and labeling him a sex offender. Surely she'll want nothing to do with him and move on?

Now I'm having a lot of feelings. I know you'll think I'm crazy, but part of me wants to call the guy, forget the bad parts of the date, and see him again because no one has shown me any affection or tenderness in so many years. Maybe he didn't mean to bother me when he hit my butt even after I said to stop. Maybe I overreacted. We got on so well at the beginning of the date, and I want that part to continue. I feel so confused, you guys.

If she had gotten the DA to charge this guy and the DA had somehow gotten a conviction this woman would be talking about her 'sexual assault' and her 'rapist' but since they failed to validate her claims, she's now considering dating this guy again.

Later in the post she claims it was because she grew up in an abusive household and can't recognize creeps.