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Here is my take on recognizing and pushing the right buttons on a branch swinger. How to tell when she's ready to break her current commitment? How do you read the signs of attraction so you can move the interaction at the right pace and in the right direction?

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Since using online dating to complement my daygame, I've come across a few interesting gems that have reinforced some red pill lessons for me. This particular gem is Johanna, an aspiring branch swinger.

Johanna is a young and very cute 21 year old who is unhappy in her current relationship. She makes it very clear in her profile that she is romantically involved, describing it as a "complicated situation." What she really means is that she is unhappy and wants another man to fulfill what she is missing from her relationship. From what she's told me, her current "boyfriend" doesn't include her in social situations, is always busy, and only calls her when he wants to fuck. Sound familiar fellas? It should - it's called being a Fuckbuddy. Not even a plate... she doesn't even get the benefits of enjoying his high status. Poor gal...

Guy actually sounds like he has her wrapped around his fingers, he's pretty RP in handling her from what I heard, he just doesn't give a fuck. Unfortunately for him he doesn't know how to throw a bit of comfort to keep his plate happy so she doesn't wonder around. I push a few buttons online, ask her things like are you happy to trigger that hamster, then suggest we meet up for coffee. It was a little tough to get her on a date, had some resistance, but masculine men push through barriers like these without getting butthurt. As a RP man you should expect every woman to show resistance, some more than others. I used to get butthurt about it and frustrated, but nowadays I'm at a place where I enjoy the challenge, and mainly use it to hone my skills for when the right gal comes along (the kind that's 18, virgin, great cook, doesn't party, but that will take a while to game before she opens up her legs). Based on Johanna's response time (always less than 10-15 minutes), I knew she was interested, so I kept pushing until I made definite plans and got an enthusiastic response of "see you there!". However if a chick takes too long to respond, it signals low interest and flakiness. Better move on to greener pastures... Use your head and gut instinct here to know when an prospect is bad.

I started out slow on the date, meeting her at a coffee shop. This sort of public innocent meeting lowers their defenses, especially when you meet them online. We talk a little bit, she is very impressed by what I'm doing with my life. She doesn't have much going on in hers, whereas I'm older, more talented, great future career prospects, not to mention a tight body. I am aloof and cool not because I act that way, but because I became that way slowly over time. I'm the perfect fucking branch for her to swing to. So literally within 5 minutes I go for a venue change as I don't feel like listening to her complain about her life. It was a sunny day so I suggest we go enjoy the weather while it still lasts. And off we go, heading over to my car. I open the door for her because I'm a gentleman, gently guiding her with my hand. Kino mode on.

As we're talking in the car, I continue with very light innocent kino. A slight touch on the arm or leg whenever I drive a point home, that's all it takes at first. It gets her comfortable with being touched by you, and makes more intimate gestures super easy to move into later on. If it bothers her, don't freak out: either she has mental issues, or is very prudish, either way you should be unattached to the outcome. I always think of dates as practice nowadays and don't get attached until a girl proves herself worthy. It's a great way to practice your frame. Continue again later on. If she doesn't warm up, end the date and go get a few more phone numbers. Being this touchy-feely was hard in the beginning for me, but I've gotten to the point where I just do this naturally with women now. We reach our destination, and we're outdoors enjoying the weather and talking. I continue this sort of kino. If we go through a door, I guide her through by touching her lower back. As we're talking I touch her arm. Any sort of obstacle (puddles or goose poop), I guide her around. Don't be afraid gents! Be a fucking man and touch your lady!

We're talking and I discover a few more things. She's not only being treated as a booty call, but she's been riding the CC for quite some time. She openly admits to having a phase where she fooled around with a bunch of guys, a lesbian phase, basically told me she tried anything and everything. She is literally an open book about her past, which is such a turn off - great relationship material right there for some poor unsuspecting beta bucks. Good thing I always wrap my shit up like a Hazmat suit.

Anyways we're talking and she's qualifying to me heavily, pointing out how she normally doesn't wear makeup but she did for this date, I tease her by calling her out on how she's trying to impress me, and she admits it. That's a dead giveaway that she's interested. When a woman really likes you she will make it very easy for you. So I grab her hand and off we go. Talk some more, play some pool at a nearby place, and normally I do one more venue change before heading back to my place. But with this one having such a high interest level and already introducing sexual topics into the conversation without me having to do a damn thing, I skip the next venue and just drop the hey I was gonna cook X and Y, you should join me. I get zero resistance and an enthusiastic that sounds good. Off we go to my place.

I always make it a point to kiss close BEFORE getting back to my place. Seeing how I didn't have a good opportunity before, I do it before I get her back in the car. I look deeply into her eyes, turn on my James Bond charm, and tell her in a deep sincere yet dominant tone if we're gonna do this, you have to promise no more talking negatively about your past for the rest of the night. She promises me to stop, I pull her in, and I go in for the kiss. Easy peasy fellas. Very enthusiastic response too (I'm soooo getting laid tonight woohoo!!!).

We arrive at my place, I start the food, and it's a fucking cakewalk from there. I swear, with this one I didn't even have to try at all. It was so easy it was BORING. The only LMR I got was I'm feeling a bit guilty as this is a first date, and I'm involved with someone. I forgot what I said, I didn't think about it too much, just brushed it off with a it's a first date for me too, we're both enjoying this and continued to kiss her. Test passed. I'm sure 99% of guys would have tried to cater to her guilty feelings, or back down so she doesn't feel guilty: we can just talk if you're not comfortable LOL. Ya right... When it comes to LMR, if she is already in her underwear with her tits hanging out, she's ready fellas. I did this shit once where a chick was naked on my bed and hit me with the I'm not ready to have sex. I was a Nice Guy so I backed down, and it still stings to this day. She had an amazing ass I would've loved to pound. But that's the price I paid for being a Nice Guy.

Back to the story, sex with Joanna was sub par. I should have guessed, based on how fucking lifeless she was at the age of 21. This is how all CC riders are. She may have a cute face, but her soul is gone. A wasteland, I tell ya. That plus the fact that fucking her vagina was like throwing a needle down a well. Maybe I just have a small dick, who knows.... either way by her demeanor and looseness I estimate her partner count to be at least 20. A shame, she had a really pretty and sweet face...

LESSONS LEARNED

  • Lesson #1: romantically involved in a complicated situation means she is open to fucking other guys.

  • Lesson #2: when spinning plates, you have to give enough comfort/love to keep them happy. This keeps from from wondering around.

  • Lesson #3: as a man, it's your job to make things happen. A woman will RARELY take your hand and lead you to the bedroom. Even when I lost my virginity to a more experienced gal, I still had to take charge. Granted due to my inexperience it was a bit like fumbling around a maze in the dark, but I figured out where to put it. Pushing through her barriers and passing her tests comes with the territory. Get used to it.

  • Lesson #4: while pushing through is important, know when to move on. Learn to read a woman's attraction levels. It comes with experience, but you can figure this out within a month or two if you consistently approach every day. You'll pretty much know if she'll ever reply to that first text.

  • Lesson #5: start kino early, don't be afraid to touch them on their upper arm when talking to them, or their lower back as you open the door for them and guide them through. It's normal and natural, regardless of what feminists tell you.

  • Lesson #6: YOU are evaluating HER. Pay close attention to what she says, and it will reveal a lot about her character. You want to come across as nonjudging, so saying things like "Oh that's cool" when she tells you about her fuck-everything-in-sight stage is OK. You are just getting laid, not marrying this chick.

  • Lesson #7: when on a date, you should always be prepared to change to multiple locations, getting more and more romantic. The places YOU select should give you the opportunity to have some private romantic moments (for example: know an area of a park that isn't well circulated by others) so you can go for the kiss.

  • Lesson #8: always have an excuse towards the end to go back to your place, whether it's cooking some type of food from scratch, some new art you're working on, a song you composed, some TV show you want to introduce her to, etc. You do have an interesting life, don't you?

  • Lesson #9: know when and how to go for the kiss. If she's been reciprocating kino, you pull her in as you tease her and she places her head on your chest, stuff like that indicates she's comfortable, and probably ready to be kissed. It's time to lay down the James Bond charm. So take her hands and have her facing you (normal and natural at this point as you've been pushing her around guiding her this entire time), look deepy into her eyes, let the silence fill the space (gently shush her if she keeps talking), caress her cheek, reach aroundn her neck, pull her close aaaaaaand go for it. Take your time and enjoy it fellas, it's not about the destination with women. It's about the journey. Let the butterflies go loose, that's what it's all about!!!

  • Lesson #10: When it comes to LMR, if she is already in her underwear with her tits hanging out, she's ready fellas. All you have to do is not talk her out of it, and take your time. Two steps forward, one step back, and you will be penetrating her with your masculine core soon enough.

Stay smooth fellas!