Even in the blue pill world, men are notorious for being afraid to commit. It's common to hear women using that trope to blackmail a guy into marriage. For some reason, it has always been hard to defend against that attack. I think it is actually because men take commitment very seriously. It insults us somewhere in the core of our being to have someone call us out on that, thus it has always been a very effective shaming tactic for women to use.

That being said, we now have decades of statistics demonstrating that around 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Simply put, men are not the gender with the commitment problem. I think its been psychologically suppressed for a long time, but deep down, I think most men have always understood this. We aren't afraid to commit. We are justifiably cautious when committing to a creature who has no reciprocal ability.

Feminism didn't free women, it exposed their true nature. Now that we can all see it writ large, I fail to understand how any man can make it to 30 without being red pilled. If your still a simp after that, that's on you player. I give younger men a pass for a while because so many of them have been raised by "strong single women" that their heads are understandably twisted up.

I'm sure on a MGTOW forum we all understand this, but I've never seen the "afraid to commit" thing attacked directly. I thought I'd throw it out there.