Should I hire an escort?

jerry408 · 2019-02-05T15:27:34+00:00

I’m going to be 31 and still a virgin. I’ve had chances to have pussy several times. Men need to realize sex isn’t a big fucking deal. No one really cares. We make sex so important to validate our worth. For me I would never have sex with a random ass person especially a prostitute because your validating that behavior. If you can’t control your sexual urges what makes you think you can’t control marriage or falling in love with a women. My suggestion is to have sex with a women who wants to have sex with you for free. I’ve never had to give a dollar to a women and could have had sex several times.

ArmbarSuperstar · 2019-02-05T15:25:46+00:00

It's definitely worth a go for the experience. Even if your Chad lite and have no trouble getting girls IRL, it's still worth a punt just to experience it.

You might find the novelty dies off fast though, or you might regret spending the dollar as soon as post nut clarity sets in, but hey it's a lesson learned.

NathanHollister · 2019-02-05T14:59:50+00:00

I read the title, and the answer is yes regardless of the text.

MadDogMAGA · 2019-02-05T16:15:47+00:00

Go to Ukraine and fuck a few hookers that look like supermodels for $100/pop. 😂💦

enavarrochavez · 2019-02-05T15:33:53+00:00

Pussy isnt worth 200$ i think. Jack off and buy some new clothes etc.

TheGreatEvil · 2019-02-05T15:06:55+00:00

I myself wouldn't want an escort. If you really want it, make sure you use protection. Also, make sure you have evidence of her consent, like texts, videos, etc. Don't be falsely accused of rape.

MuleFool42 · 2019-02-05T15:38:30+00:00

Yes. Go celebrate. Go somewhere that it's legal. Have fun, where a condom.

Escorts are much cheaper than girl friends and wives! LOL.

RickSanchezH1664 · 2019-02-05T15:03:55+00:00

I’ve thought about this too and I’d only feel comfortable in going to a legal brothel in NV or the Caribbean. Because of that the price is inflated, but you can combine it with a trip. There’s a lot of conventions in Vegas and it’s a short trip to the brothels.

Aza383 · 2019-02-05T15:07:34+00:00

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schemadrome · 2019-02-05T16:03:14+00:00

That's how Luis Bunuel lost his virginity; he is quoted as saying that was "the common route and the experience was not remarkable in any way". That's how I did it and that's how it turned out. It is a good idea to do that and arguably works for demystification and clarity. As for the risks, you can debate that and technialities in more than one dedicated sub.

stayed away from relationships and even acting flirtatious with women for my entire life

good

CastandRefused · 2019-02-05T17:38:35+00:00

Don't pay for sex, there you go that's my opinion.

[deleted] · 2019-02-05T15:57:58+00:00

No, you're still young. Unless you want your first sexual experience to be with a hooker, I suggest against it. The fire may be hot, but I'd touch it first.

Freezemeister7895 · 2019-02-05T16:04:13+00:00

While I generally dont think prostitution is wrong, I would like to know in which country you live. There are some countries with decent legal and safe options, in others I would not recommend it.

Apart from legal issues, STDs and other stuff I would not advise you to have your first time with a professional.

Imagine this, you want to learn boxing. You go to a gym, and a trainer sends you into your first sparring fight with the current champion of the gym. There is no way this is a good experience, you will get beaten, badly, or your sparring partner holds back, which would also be frustrating for most people. And in no way will you be able to judge your performance or if this "a normal sparring fight" or "was that fun", you will not know what happened there. Instead you should go for someone with comparable experience, at least until you can perform the basics.

It is an entirely different dynamic if you first have to "conquer" a woman, by the time you lay in bed with her you probably wont be able to stop yourself, not so much if the woman is there for you to take at any time. At least with me, that feels like cheating, and I usually feel no desire for that women, regardless of looks. Now I know that sounds like blue pill tradcon shit, but thats my experience. Btw, I live in Germany and prostitution here is as good and safe as it can be.

If you had sex with many women its more of a way to get release and work on stress, so totally okay. If its your first time, it will screw with your perception of women and what is normal or what feels good. It is very much a mental thing, at least if you are not intoxicated.

Origami84 · 2019-02-05T16:24:57+00:00

800? Do you live in nmanhattan or something? Set a more reasonable budget, bro, you can have a good time with a model-level woman starting from 100/150 in all major cities.

As for your question.... go ahead, why not. Honestly, i think hookers are overrated - the "pleasure" you get is not different from the one you could get by yourself, and there is nothing like the intimacy you get out of a GF - but, if you are a virgin at 24, i guess you could waste a bit of money and see what all the buzz is about. Imho you are going to be disappointed... but at least you crossed the X and can move on.

S1ck0m0d3 · 2019-02-05T17:17:39+00:00

Buy a Fleshlight, Eufrat edition. I just saved you hundreds of dollars. You're welcome.

MonsterHipster · 2019-02-05T17:43:51+00:00

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saskatoonfucks123 · 2019-02-05T15:43:34+00:00

If you get a girlfriend and waste your time and money. You still have no guarantee.

Misogynes · 2019-02-05T18:35:09+00:00

I don’t get everyone saying your first time shouldn’t be with a pro. My best girlfriends were always tigers in the sack — I could just lay back and relax, and they’d get the job done for me, until I was ready to pop in their mouth or whatever.

Unless you’re hot enough and confident enough that 7s literally get wet at the thought of you jizzing in them, hiring a pro is the only way you’re gonna simulate that experience, and anything less than that is just a letdown — not worth the time or hassle.

Plus, you’re gonna have to wrap your shit up (meaning you can’t feel nothing), so her performance (movements, visuals, efforts devoted to your pleasure) is gonna be what makes or breaks your enjoyment. Trust me, you want a good performer.

Go pro or go home.

Mchooofer · 2019-02-05T18:38:04+00:00

Find a high quality escort then. Someone who's warm at heart and only does escort as a hobby and not a full time job. Some escorts can be very loving and give you a great GF experience, and others will leave you with a feeling of being misused and depressed. Wells that's my view. But my advice would be.. stop jacking it off and forget about women. Pursue your passion, and you will naturally bump into a girl you match or could match. But never give your power over to woman, never ever.

Isurvivedafeminist · 2019-02-05T21:58:58+00:00

Dont!!! If you last till 30 you develop magical powers ! You could just get a paloqueth pocket pussy or the spinning pocket pussy, its better than any woman ive ever been with.

alleskaput · 2019-02-05T15:07:19+00:00

FHRITP

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-02-05T17:36:38+00:00

Totally. I hired an escort for my first time, spent a week finding the right one. I had my first time on my own terms.

Corvvs · 2019-02-05T18:10:49+00:00

Don't do it in the US or somewhere else it's illegal, you'll be too nervous to enjoy it. Wait until you can afford some travel abroad.

Liquid_Leopard · 2019-02-05T19:03:04+00:00

I've had my fair share of women so I'll toss in my $.02...

What makes sex fun and amazing (for me) was making my gf orgasm or hearing her moan, the dirty talk and the intensity. Take all that away and it's rather like a fleshlight minus the boobs. Now that I'm MGTOW and knowing how many times most girls have done this with other dudes, I just can't be bothered to care.

TL;DR orgasm feels the same, you're not missing much unless a girl is really into you

prove_this · 2019-02-05T20:28:30+00:00

Yes.

I'd spend a bit less then that and use the saving to see a few girls.

I don't see why you'd have to pay more than $300 for an hour.

The real advice is if you follow through with this and she is not hot, just walk away. A lot of escorts lie about their photos. You'll be happier in the long run if you find the right girl, even if it means walking away from a few. Pick someone who has feedback too.

hrm0894 · 2019-02-05T20:51:30+00:00

STDs and STIs scare me. If you really have to know what pussy feels like then go for it. But its really not that special.

duppypilgrim · 2019-02-05T21:56:01+00:00

Yes, absolutely.

No such thing as free sex for a man, you pay for it with your money or you pay for it with your time. Your choice.

Go to zona norte in TJ. It's a goddamn blast.

Reach out if you want some details or advice.

beyond_therapy_ · 2019-02-05T22:09:50+00:00

Payment is proof of consent.

[deleted] · 2019-02-06T04:01:12+00:00

Definitely. Go for it.

gingy100 · 2019-02-14T22:27:42+00:00

I know an escort good friend of mine. She's a hot latina. Currently in San Diego for the time being. If you are close I could give her a ring for you.. You should at least experience pussy once in your 20's

lonewolfsigmamgtow · 2019-02-05T15:37:24+00:00

Exactly . No need to go after girls

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-02-05T16:06:07+00:00

If you want to get an escort then go for it. At least you get what you pay for but from what I understand make sure you hire from a reputable agency. Maybe go to Las Vegas.

Wait until your settled in and all your debt is paid off or at least save up.

MethaCat · 2019-02-05T16:36:03+00:00

Just be sure to document the whole thing, specially the part where she is on a legal age / mental healthy to consent.

In the future someone might use this encounter to destroy you in case you became famous.

bfte2 · 2019-02-05T17:42:24+00:00

Yes.

MR3790 · 2019-02-05T18:13:52+00:00

Yes, hire an escort get it over with realize its not worth what the hype is do cool engineer stuff, make money, live you dreams. Chase a check not a chick.

dorf41 · 2019-02-05T18:54:08+00:00

Yup. Hire the escort

JohnOrange2112 · 2019-02-06T13:54:59+00:00

It's an established, legal business in the rural counties of Nevada.

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imstupidasfuk · 2019-02-05T17:46:20+00:00

I'd go for fucking spree at least 10 hookers in short time span. Different heights, bodies, faces, races. Multiple times because first time usually sucks, you will get accustomed to it and more variety. At least bang one few times. If you feel you are missing out go for it do some reading as I haven't banged a hooker. You have one life and unless you are extremist there's no reason to die a virgin besides avoiding risks associated with sex.

Errorcode99 · 2019-02-05T19:09:46+00:00

800 bucks? just book a trip to Europe for the same money.

Title	Should I hire an escort?
Author	happilynotmarried
Upvotes	44
Comments	83
Date	February 5, 2019 2:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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