Frustrated, asking why with my ex

DangZagnut · 2019-08-02T20:00:37+00:00

You're her emotional tampon, and you keep enabling her. Ghost, block, never talk to her again on every form of communication including ESP.

Never waste a second of emotional energy on a woman. She's a drama pig. You're lucky you got out without her claiming rape.

holddadoorhodor · 2019-08-02T20:02:55+00:00

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strongandhappy · 2019-08-02T20:03:14+00:00

Don't ask her, ask yourself, why did I expect anything else to happen when I took her back? You're as much a problem here as she is because you expect her to be different than she is. You may as well shout at the Moon.

Fedor_Fedorov · 2019-08-02T20:03:45+00:00

She saw you as a beta emotional support provider, basically someone to use for comfort. And she doesn't give a fuck about your feelings because she doesn't respect you as a man. When she said she loves you she's basically saying "I need you here cause I'm mentally ill" and to provide comfort for her while she dreams of fucking Chad and Tyrone. You got used and you got played. I'm willing to bet you guys never had sex either.

crawdaddy9880 · 2019-08-02T21:24:28+00:00

Your first mistake was taking her back. Girls like that have mental health issues. Break contact as she will only bring you more misery.

[deleted] · 2019-08-02T21:30:41+00:00

This one time I was poking a beehive when I got stung. Later on, I was walking and saw the same beehive so I tried poking it again. Then I got stung, which I never would have expected. What the hell guys?

MuleFool42 · 2019-08-02T20:06:04+00:00

It's just your turn, until it's not. Don't ever look at relationships as permanent. They all have an end. Always be ready to walk away.

[deleted] · 2019-08-02T20:08:11+00:00

The lesson is don’t use face time

Vaxel00 · 2019-08-02T20:01:31+00:00

Sounds like borderline personality disorder.

ThePlague · 2019-08-02T21:10:43+00:00

Why would you post this to a MGTOW forum? You acted like an emotional tampon during phase 1 despite the HUGE red flags. Then, you acted like a simp during phase 2. Now you're asking what the hell? Jesus.

Women act the way women act. You can't change that, all you can do is not make poor choices. Your choices are entirely on you.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-08-02T20:26:57+00:00

Anyone who physically abused themselves is a nightmare waiting to happen. Run. Do not walk.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-08-02T21:08:11+00:00

Every day is a surprise with a BPD girl!she can love you one minute and want to kill you the next!

You just learned a good lesson...NEVER believe what a woman SAYS and remember her true nature hiding in the shadows at all times.

peguy2000 · 2019-08-02T20:30:18+00:00

Youre so beta its cringe. You need major self improvement

[deleted] · 2019-08-03T01:46:12+00:00

What the hell guys?

It is the way it is. Sorry bro, life is a hard teacher, but a teacher nonetheless.

Al-Darwish · 2019-08-02T20:02:13+00:00

Your mistake was staying by number 3

[deleted] · 2019-08-02T21:20:21+00:00

AWALT...stop cucking yourseld.

Honkrowtonks · 2019-08-03T00:21:37+00:00

Sounds like she personally has issues, but not all her fault. I get the whole wanting to help someone close to you out, especially when there's romantic feelings, but those were some red flags with the multiple separations and immediate rebounds. And as an aside, it's okay to feel bad about losing a parent and being emotionally vulnerable, that's not weakness. I'm sorry to hear your mom! Losing a loved one will always suck :o(

500dollarsinprizes · 2019-08-03T03:03:26+00:00

She doesn’t even like herself. What makes you think there’s enough happiness inside of her to give of that to you? You dont fix this - you leave it where you found it.

All your heroics - youre nothing but a clown, and no one loves a clown. If you dont like wearing clown shoes every day, then congratulations! You can take them off now.

One last thing: dont look to her for answers. You wont find them. Fuck that horrid bitch. Go your own way, and one day you wont need those answers because you’ll be asking entirely different questions.

[deleted] · 2019-08-02T20:04:51+00:00

If someone can break up with you and move on so quickly, have some more self worth than to take them back. She sounds very immature and a bit unstable, not the kind of person you need in your life. Better luck next time unfortunately.

Electronic_Record · 2019-08-02T20:59:57+00:00

You haven’t learned yet? Gawd dayumn !!

[deleted] · 2019-08-02T21:01:03+00:00

Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me! Don't be a dumbass and never let her worm her way back into your life.

trapperzz · 2019-08-02T21:41:27+00:00

Yup nature is a bitch

GTarkin · 2019-08-02T21:52:52+00:00

Classic borderline behavior. There is method to the madness. Inform yourself about borderline personality disorder and stay clear of those people

AdonisSefa · 2019-08-02T23:00:52+00:00

Bro you lost the most important person in your life. And she doesn't even give a shit. Let that fucking selfish cunt cut herself what will happen? Nothing because girls do. That for attention.

Docbear64 · 2019-08-03T00:16:16+00:00

She's a broken fucked up person she showed this to you once and you tried to forgive her and then you got surprised when she showed it to you twice...do yourself a favor and when she shows up the third time ignore and block the bitch .

MattFoley79 · 2019-08-03T00:30:33+00:00

Dude... she's a cutter. What the fuck did you think was going to happen? That you'd have a long, stable, healthy relationship?

Sticking your dick in a cutter even once is a recipe for disaster. Believe me, I know from experience.

Cutting and eating disorders are signs of borderline personality disorder. They can't be helped.

madriverdog · 2019-08-03T03:22:16+00:00

“Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, won’t get fooled again.”

the only situation this quote ever fit.

edgysecularist · 2019-08-03T04:12:30+00:00

AWALT

caralto · 2019-08-03T12:52:02+00:00

at any point in all of this, how much was she sucking your dick? (if at all)

sounds like your just an emotional cushion to her bro.

i wouldn't get back with a cheater, but if i was inclined, i'd make her pay for it (e.g. like anal, ass to mouth, rimjobs), to emotionally use her and subject her to the sort of disgust she now represents, and then, like an eagle rising, disappear on the bitch. nothing better than her own mind to drive her to the asylum! and you will at least have the memories of having broken her and some nice videos and photos of her pushing her body to the max to pleasure her. but hey, as I said, I wouldn't be with a cheater in the first place.

Grant1412 · 2019-08-03T07:33:09+00:00

I'm so sorry. You do not deserve any of that. Your answer is that she is remorseless. She is simply cold hearted in incapable of love. She used you. I know that's just simply not enough. I know you still feel so confused. I know you need some sort of humanity from her, some sort of accountability from her. I know you need that. But she won't give it to you. She won't because she feels satisfaction from your confusion and lack of compassionate closure. That is the truth. Live and stay on your feet.

Twistypete · 2019-08-04T06:38:43+00:00

>What the hell guys?

Women. That's all the answer there is.

Title	Frustrated, asking why with my ex
Author	Random_throwaway95
Upvotes	41
Comments	38
Date	August 2, 2019 7:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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